Ijwele elimhlophe yintaka engavumelekanga, ngoko ke abantu abaye baphuma ngamandla emphakathini nakwimimiselo yokuziphatha babizwa ngokuba njalo. Ukususela kumashumi eminyaka edlulileyo i-albino i-albino isiqhelo esinqabileyo kakhulu, sinokuthetha ngakumbi ngegama elithi phraseology. Kutheni abantu bekhetha loo mfanekiso: ngokwabo okanye ngokuzalwa kwabo?
Kuthetha ntoni "ukukhala okumhlophe"?
Ibinzana elithi "iqhuba elimhlophe" lisetyenziswe kwiintsingiselo ezimbini:
- Kwihlabathi lendalo - i-albino iqhuba. I-Albin isifo esiyingozi, izidalwa ezinesifo esifanayo zijongwa njengezodwa.
- Ukukhala okumhlophe kuluntu bubuntu obuvela kwisihlwele ngokubukeka, ukuthanda, ukuziphatha nokuziphatha.
Ukukhala kweMhlophe kwendalo akulungelelanisekanga, kunzima ukuba bafihle kwizilwanyana ezidliwayo ngenxa yemigodi yabo eqaqambileyo. Abafani nabanye. Oku kuchaza imvelaphi yegama elithi "iqhuba elimhlophe", ngoko yaqala ukubiza abantu ngokungaqhelekanga ekuziphatheni, ezivela kwisihlwele kunye nemikhwa yabo nembono. Eli binzana livela kwiintlobo ezimbini zobuntu :
- Abaculi, abalobi, izazinzulu, abahlala kwilizwe labo izandi, imifanekiso kunye neengcamango.
- Abantu bayisidenge kwaye banomngcipheko, abanesilonda okanye abanzima ukuphakama kwizinga eliqhelekileyo.
"I-White Crow" - ingqondo
Njengekota, eli binzana lifunyenwe kwisicelo sengqondo. Ngokwemigangatho yengqondo, "iqhuba elimhlophe" ngumntu onokuthi uluntu luyinto engafanelekanga ngenxa yokungabonakali kwabanye. Oku akukhona malunga nokubonakala, kodwa malunga neemilinganiselo zokuziphatha kunye nokuvavanya kwinto eyenzekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ndlela yokuziphatha ikhethwa ngabantwana abaselula okanye abantu bokudala ukuze bazivakalise ngokwabo, ukuze bafumane ukuqonda. Iinkalo zobuntu banjalo:
- Musa ukuzifihla izimvo zabo, ezahlukileyo kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo kwaye ziyaziqhayisa ngabo;
- abafuni ukuwamkela ukunyaniseka koluntu ukuze bahambe ngaphaya kwabo;
- ukubonisa inkcaso yabo kwimigaqo yoluntu.
Ngaba kulula ukuba "yizimvu ezimnyama"?
"I-White Crow" ngumntu onobuchule bakhe, ngokungafani nomntu ongeyena mfana, umntu onjalo akazibekeli injongo yokuma ngaphandle, ucinga nje ukuba iimpawu zakhe zokuziphatha zichanekile. Ngamaxesha onke, abantu abanjalo baye babunzima, kuba:
- abaqondi, bacaphukisa kwaye badla ngokudelela;
- uzame ukunqanda umntu;
- Bodwa okanye bafumana abahlobo phakathi kwabantu abafanayo;
- uluvo lwabo alugatywanga luluninzi.
Kuthekani ukuba "uyisihlwele esimhlophe"?
Abazali abaninzi banomdla kulo mbuzo: njani ukuhlala "iqhuba elimhlophe"? Abantwana ngokwabo abahlala bexineke ngenxa yedwa, ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abaselula banokubonisa ukungafani kwabo. Kwaye unina nobaba banenkxalabo malunga nokuba umntwana uya kulungiswa njani xa ekhulile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye abadala baxineke ngenxa yokungakwazi kwabo ukulungelelanisa noluntu. Iingcali zengqondo zinika iingcebiso ezinjalo:
- Musa ukuphatha ingqongqo ngokusingqongileyo, ukugcina ubumnandi, yamkela izimvo zabanye;
- ukuphawula oko kungafundwa kwabanye;
- ukubonisa ngokuzithoba ukuma kwabo, ngaphandle kokugwenxa nokugwetywa;
- ukuba ingxaki yintsipho engokwemvelo, njengokukhula okukhulu okanye okuncinci, unokuyijika ibe yisidima. Bhalisa kwiikholeji zeemodeli, basketball okanye uye kwivenkile yokugqoka ephantsi;
- usebenzise ubuntu bakho, yamkele kwaye uzithande njengabo.
Indlela yokuba "yimvu emnyama"?
Ukuwela kwicandelo lalabo ababizwa ngokuthi "izimvu ezimnyama" kulula kakhulu, kuya kubakho ukubonisa izimvo eziphambene kakhulu nezikhundla eziqhelekileyo, ukuba utshintshe indlela yokugqoka, i-styles kunye nendlela yokuthetha. Ukunciphisa i-mobile, i-iphone, i-iphone, iphepha kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni, ukubonisa ukuzimela kwabo kwiimimiselo. Nangona nje i-intanethi kwi-intanethi yaqala ukuhlukanisa umxholo othi "iqhuba elimhlophe" elihle, xa lifika kwishishini kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni. Iseluleko okufuneka ukuba ungayesabi ngokuba "yimvu emnyama":
- ukuza neengcamango zangaphambili zesilengiso sakho;
- bamangaliswa ngabaphulaphuli ngesiphakamiso esithakazelisayo;
- Ungesabi ukumema ukutyelela nokuthetha;
Umzekeliso we-White Crow
I-plumage ekhethiweyo ekhethekileyo yanikezela umzekeliso ochazayo malunga nesihlwele esimhlophe. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, wayengathandwanga ngumbala ongaqhelekanga, ngoko wakhula ngokukhawuleza. Esi sikhulu sasizondwa ngabaninzi, kodwa wayengenakuqonda isizathu sokuba kutheni. Benza amaqhinga angcolileyo, kodwa intaka iphendule ngobubele, kwaye inxibelelana encinane, yaqala ukuphakama phezulu esibhakabhakeni, kude neentsapho. Ubomi besikhala ebomhlophe kwakunzima, kodwa wakhula, womelela, okwakunomona omkhulu.
Kwaye emva kokuba isihlwele esimhlophe sagqiba ukubhabhisa kude ekukhangekeni kweentaka ezimhlophe njengaye, ngoko ke wamkelwa emhlambini omtsha. Kwaye emva kokuphela kweentaka ezimhlophe, abanye baxabisa iimpawu zabo baza bazisola zabo iimpazamo. Ukuziphatha kwalo mzekeliso kukuba awudingi ukwesaba ukuba nguwe, qhubeka uqhayiya nesidima, ukwazi ukufuna abantu abanomdla kwaye ungalokothi uzame kumntu othile.