Ukuba usoloko uva iimangalo zobugovu, kwaye uzibuza indlela yokujongana nokuxilongwa okukhuseleyo, ngoko kufuneka ufunde isihloko sethu.
Ziziphi iintlobo zobugovu?
Okokuqala, masiqonde into ebalulekileyo yokuziphatha kwabantu, kwaye kutheni le mfanelo ebalulekileyo kuthi ngamanye amaxesha ibe yinto yokuphutha. U-Egoism ngumnqweno wokuzuza kuyo yonke into, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumdla wabantu abasondeleyo.
Enyanisweni, ukuzingca akuboni ukuba ubomi bethu bube bhetele, ngokuchaseneyo, luvame ukusivimbela ukuba siphile.
Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuziphatha okungakumbi ngokweqabane kubudlelwane kubonisa ukuba umntu uziphatha ngokungafanelekile ukwakha iminqweno yentsapho kwinqanaba lakhe. Yaye uya kubakhokelela ekubeni ubomi bentsapho buya kubanjelwa ubumpofu nokuxabana. I-egoism yabesifazana idla ngokubonakalisa ukungavumi kwentombazana ukuba yamkele ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka kube yedwa . Ukude, sinokuqonda, njengemvakalelo yokupholisa, ngelixa kubantu kungokwemvelo - ukulinda isivunguvungu semvakalelo, ngaphandle kokunciphisa umphefumlo wakho. I-egoism yamadoda ivame ukubonakaliswa kwinto yokuba indoda ayifuni ukulahlekelwa yinkululeko. Kwaye imiqondiso yabesifazane ibona, njengokuba kunjalo. Ngubani oya kuthanda?
Ububele bobuzali - xa abazali bengaboni abantwana babo ilungelo lokuchasana. Oko kukuthi, ababoni umntu ngaphakathi kubo. I-Egoism indala - ukubuyela ebuntwaneni, xa umntu engakwazi ukufaka impembelelo kwilizwe langaphandle, kodwa imfuno yakhe yokuzibaluleka kwayo ayizange ihambe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nayiphi na i-egoism, eqinisweni-isinyanzelo kwinto yokuba umntu akazithandi ngokwaneleyo kwaye akayithembi ihlabathi elikufutshane naye.
Ukugqithisa into ebizwa ngokuba yinto yokuzingca, yenza umgangatho ofanelekileyo njengovelwano. Ekugqibeleni, ulonwabo lwabo abasondezayo luxhomekeke kwintsapho yakho. Mhlawumbi ivakala into engaqhelekanga, kodwa yinto engokwemvelo! Zininzi iziqalekiso azisetyenzisiwe kuthi ngenxa yenhlanhla yethu, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abantu abanelisekile. Ukuba uhamba unyawo kwindlela engaphantsi komntu onoyolo, akunakwenzeka ukuba kuya kuphazamisa isimo sakhe sengqondo. Abantu abanolonwabo ngakumbi kuwe, ngakumbi kunomdla ukuhlala. Oko kukuthi, wena ngokwakho unomdla kule nto. Yaye yilapho ungakhokelela khona imikhosi ebalulekileyo yokuzingca, ukuphakamisa kwizinga lobuhle!