Bonke abantu, ngandlela enye okanye enye, babanjwa ngokubanjwa kwabo. Abanye abantu abakwazi ukunikela abanye ngomsindo lula, kwaye omnye umntu olwahlulo lwesibini uba yimpuphulelo. Eyona nto inomdla kukuba, ngokuxhomekeka kwimeko enzulu yeemeko zengqondo, iintlobo ezininzi zeentlobo zazo ziyahluka.
Iintlobo zesimo sengqondo kwisimo sengqondo
Ukuqulunqa iindidi ezilandelayo, ezithi, ngendlela, zenze ukuba zivelelwe ixesha elide, ubunzima bamava ahlukeneyo, njl.
- Cha phazela . Wonke umntu uye wakha waziva ngegama elithi " isimo sithintelo ". Ngamanye amaxesha ummeli wehlabathi lolwaphulo-mthetho unakho ukuxolelwa enkundleni ngenxa yokuba ngexesha lolwaphulaphulo-mthetho belilungu elichaphazelayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba sithetha ngale nto ngokubanzi, ngoko yinkqubo yemvakalelo eyahlukileyo ngokunyathelo olukhawulezayo, olukhawulezayo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ivakalelwa ngeemeko ezibucayi, oko kukuthi, xa kunzima ukuba umntu aqokelele iingcamango zakhe aze athathe ingqwalasela ebalulekileyo kwiimeko ezingalindelekanga ezenzekile. Ngexesha elifanayo kwizengqondo, eli lizwe lomsindo, njengoko kuboniswe ngumfundi kaFreud K. G. Jung, libeka isiseko sokuvela kweendidi ezintle ezichaphazelekayo. Ezi zilandelayo zibonakalisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kweenkcukacha, ezifana neemeko ezibangela ukuba zibukeke. Akuyi kuba ngongqongqo ukuba uqaphele ukuba, ngokuxhomekeka kobunzima beli gama, umntu angabonakaliswa ngexesha lokuchaphazeleka kwe-amnesia epheleleyo okanye epheleleyo.
- Uhlobo . Ngoku siza kuthetha malunga nento ehambelana nayo kumntu ngamnye kwizinga lofuzo. Le yindlela yokuqala yeemvakalelo. Ziyimbala yomzwelo wezenzo zonke, izenzo zomntu ngokwakhe kunye nabantu, izinto, iziganeko ezizungezile. Ngoko, ekhangela umfanekiso, indoda evuyayo ithi: "Oku kuyinto enqabileyo!", Ngaloo ndlela ibonisa ubunqunu bayo.
- Umoya . Le meko inomlinganiso olinganisiweyo okanye ongabonakali kakuhle. Le ngcamango yokuzimela. Ulwalathiso lwayo luninzi. Ngokomzekelo, umntu ngokwakhe ubonakala evuya, kodwa ngaphandle akunakwenzeka, ukusuka kwimeko engayi kumthatha umntu onoyolo.
- Ukunyuka . Kwakhona, iinjongo eziphambili zengqondo zibandakanya amava amaninzi, anceda umntu ukuba agxininise yonke imikhosi yakhe into enomdla wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kungekho rhoqo kule nkqubo. Ngamanye amaxesha eli thuba liba yinto enqabileyo, ngoku kunye nokuqonda kuya kugxininisa iingcamango malunga nomxholo wesithando.
- Ukuxinezeleka . Libhekisela, kunye nefuthe, kwiimeko eziphikisanayo zengqondo apho ingqondo yengqondo kunye neentlonelo ezenzekayo. Kule meko, umzimba unzima ukusabela kwiimeko ngokugcwele ngokwaneleyo.