Abaninzi bethu ebuntwaneni babethanda ukutshintsha kwiingubo zabazalwana kunye noodade, kodwa kwezinye iimeko, umdla oqhelekileyo uba ngumdla, unyaka wonke unamandla. Kufanelekile ukwazi indlela yokuzichaza ngokuchanekileyo kwimeko enjalo.
Umnqamlezo - ngubani lo?
Umnqweno womntu ukuba agqoke iimpahla zesini esahlukileyo ubizwa ngokuba yi-cross-dressing. Abaninzi ngelo xesha bafumana ukuvuswa kwesondo. Ukuqonda oko kuthethwa ngumgcini-mgcini, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le nto ibonakala ngokubhekiselele kwimfashini kunye nokuchasana ngesini. Ukuba ngaba oomama bahlala bekhetha iinkcukacha zabo zesigcino samadoda, umzekelo, i-boyfriend okanye iikhati, abafazi abagqithisileyo bayabangela inzondo kuluntu kwaye banokuhlulwa ngamacandelo amabini:
- Ekhethekileyo . Oku kubandakanya izidloxana ezizithobelayo ngokuzenzekelayo, zisebenzisa iziqholo ezihlukahlukeneyo, zikhule iinwele zazo kwaye zisebenzise ezinye izinto ezivela kwikhonkco yabesifazane.
- Epheleleyo . Eli candelo libandakanya amadoda azivale ngokugqithiseleyo njengabasetyhini kwaye abhale ukuziphatha kwabo. Kwakhona kuthiwa yi-transvestites.
Iingcebiso kubaphambili abaqalayo
Amadoda amaninzi asenza isigqibo malunga nokuzalwa kwakhona, abanokungabaza nokwesaba, isimo sengqondo esingamkelekanga kuluntu. Indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo umfanekiso, indlela yokuba ngumgqugquzeli-umcebisi-iingcebiso eziza kuba luncedo kakhulu kule meko. Ukuze ungabi yinto yokuhleka usulu kwaye wenze ukubonakala kwakho kungokoqobo kwaye kufane neyowesifazane, kubalulekile ukuthatha loo nto engqondweni ngalo lonke uxanduva.
Indlela yokuba ngumgqugquzeli wesiphambano?
Amadoda anamava kulo mbandela, kucetyiswa kuqala ukuba uthethe nabafazi abaqhelekileyo ukuze bafumane iingcebiso kubo ngokutsha kwakhona. Ukuqhaqhaqhayisa kwangempela kunjengeendoda, nje unomdla wokugqoka abameli besini esahlukileyo.
- Impazamo eqhelekileyo yenziwe ngokungafanelekanga. Ukubeka itoni yokubumba ebusweni bakho ukufihla iimpawu zomntu, kubangela ukuba ubuso bunjengeemaski kwaye ngoko kubangalisa ingqwalasela. Akunakwenzeka ukuvuma utshintsho oluthile kwaye kungcono ukusebenza kancinci, kunokuba ungadluli.
- Ingqalelo eninzi kufuneka ihlawulwe kwi-gait echanekileyo kwaye ingakumbi kwizithende, kunye neminye imikhwa yabesifazane. Siyabulela kule nto, umfanekiso uya kukhangeleka.
Umnqamlezo-ukudala umfanekiso
Amadoda ngexesha lokuphindukuzalwa angakwazi ukujamelana neengxaki ezithile, kodwa zinezisombululo ezilula. Kukho iimfihlelo indlela abahamba ngayo abaguqula ngayo ukubonakala:
- Ukulwa nemifuno engafunekiyo . Emzimbeni womntu kukho indawo ezinokukhula kweenwele ezininzi, abafazi abangenazo. Ininzi ixhala ngeendvuba, kwaye ayiyi kusebenza apha ngesalathisi kunye nesiseko esinqununu sesiseko. Uya kunceda kwimeko ephosakeleyo.
- Izinwele . Iimfihlelo zabakhuthazi abaphambene nomnqweno zinceda ukwenza ukhetho phakathi kweenwele zakho kunye ne-wig. Abanikazi beenwele ezinqamlekileyo ngaphandle kweenqwelomoya ze-bald akufanele bakhathazeke kwaye kufuneka nje ukhule ubude obuyimfuneko. Ukuba ufuna ukudayisa iinwele zakho, kungcono ukhethe i-shade yemvelo. Amadoda aneenwele ezincinci okanye ne-bald patch kufuneka akhethe i- wig kwizinwele zemvelo eziza kwenza umfanekiso ongokoqobo.
- Umzimba omkhulu . Umgcini we-cross-dresser kufanele agcine iso kwimeko yakhe, ngoko kuya kufuneka ulahle umlomo webhiya uze uphinde ubuyeke. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba uhlobo lomzimba omkhulu kwaye lufezekise iimoko ezintle aziyi kusebenza, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokukhungatheka, kuba kukho amantombazana amaninzi "amakhulu". Ungasebenzisa iimfihlo zabesetyhini ezahlukeneyo, umzekelo, iifutshane ezandisa umthamo wamacu, i-corset kunye ne-bra ukuze wenze umthamo webele.
Indlela yokugqoka abaphambamisi?
Ukudala umfanekiso omhle wesifazana kuwumsebenzi onzima kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli ngokubambisana kwezambatho kunye nokukhethwa kwezixhobo. Aba bahamba ngeendlela baqonda indlela, bazi indlela yokulungisa izinto ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze umfanekiso uphelele. Abaqalayo bayacetyiswa ukuba baqale ngeentambo zebhinqa, kunye neesibini zeembotyi ezingenazo izithende, ezifana ne-moccasins, ezifanelekileyo izihlangu. Kuya kuncedisa umfanekiso we-blouse, kodwa umbala kuphela umele ungabetha. Impahla ekhethiweyo ifanelekileyo kumadoda nabasetyhini, okubalulekileyo ukuvuselelwa ngokufanelekileyo nangokukhululekile.
Indlela yokufumana amanxibelelwano enzentlalo yabathengisi abahamba phambili?
Kunzima kakhulu ukuba abatsha bavele bazibonakalise kuluntu kwaye nangakumbi ukuze bafumane inkxaso, kodwa ngenxa ye-intanethi kulula kakhulu ukudibanisa nabantu abaneengcinga ezifanayo. Kwiintanethi ezithandwayo zentlalo kukho amaqela akhethekileyo, kwaye kukho iiforam ezahlukileyo apho kuya kuba lula kubaphathi be-novice ukufumana abahlobo, babuze imibuzo kwaye bafumane ulwazi oluyimfuneko. Kukho indawo yangasese apho unokuthetha khona, ufunde amabali ahlukeneyo kunye neeblogi, uze uzifumene isibini.
Iincwadi malunga nabaphambano
Akukho mi sebenzi emininzi enokuchaphazela umxholo we-transvestites kunye nabantu abaneengcinga ezahlukeneyo. Ebomini, umgcini-mnxibo unokufunda iincwadi ezinjalo:
- E. Jeffrey "Umgangatho ophakathi . " Incwadi ichaza ibali lobomi be-hermaphrodite, elide kwaye elibuhlungu liyayiqonda loo nto. Ingxelo ihambelana neemeko zembali, ezentlalo nezopolitiko.
- R. Trakhtenberg "Bra for Hero" . Ingcamango yalo msebenzi kukuchaza indlela ubomi bomntu oyedwa buphela ngayo kwaye indlela yawo yesetyhini iqala.
- UP. McCabe "Isibhedlele ngePluto" . Eli bali ibali malunga nomntu oqonda ukuba ungumgcini. Unqatshelwe uluntu, kodwa akayeki kwaye asinde ngenxa yobulumko bakhe, ubumnandi kunye nenkohlakalo.