Jonga ngeenxa zonke. Uyabona ntoni phakathi kwakho, ubomi bakho bubukeka njani, mhlawumbi lixesha lokutshintsha into okanye uqale yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni? Abasetyhini abaninzi bacinga ngako xa behleli beentloko ezingcolileyo phambi kweTV kwinyanga, bebukela i-melodramas ngelixa besidla iinqebengwana, balibala xa bephefumula umoya ophelileyo. Ukuba ngaba malunga nawe, kufuneka ugcine ubomi bakho ngokukhawuleza.
Fumana kwixesha elidlulileyo!
Okokuqala, susa isizathu sokuba kukho ubomi obunjalo. Ukuba iphoso lendoda kunye nolwalamano olungathandabuzekiyo , kubalulekile ukuphosa yonke into edibanisa nale meko. Oku kusebenza kwiifoto, amanqaku ahlukeneyo, izipho kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Nangona i-T-shirt yakho endiyithandayo, endikunike yona, kufuneka ibe kwibhokisi lokulahla. Yenza ukucoca ngokubanzi kwendawo, ulahle yonke into ongayisebenzisi ixesha elide, cima indawo yokuphila olutsha.
Emva kokuba intsimi ikhululiwe, into ephambili ihlala ikulungele umphefumlo wakho. Udinga ukuthetha ngengqondo ukuxolela kunye nokuxolela bonke abantu abakuchukumisayo, kwaye uvumeleke ukuhamba kwimeko ekhokelela kulo mbuso. Ukuba awuyiyo, nayiphi na imizamo yokutshintsha nokuqala ubomi obutsha ayiyi kuphumelela.
Amanyathelo okuqala
Abantu abaninzi bayethusa nayiphi na inguqu, kwaye ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala soloko kunzima kakhulu. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ukhethe isicwangciso esicacileyo sobomi bakho obutsha. Thatha icwecwe lephepha uze ubhale yonke iminqweno yakho, nokuba yincinci, uze uchaze ngokubanzi iinkqubo zokuziphumeza. Uluhlu lunokuba nayiphi na into, umzekelo, umsebenzi omtsha, uhambo oluya e-Australia, indiza yebhaluni, njl njl. Ngaloo ndlela, ukwesaba okungaziwa kuya kuphelisa, kuba unakho konke okubhaliweyo kwisinyathelo ngasinye.
Ngokomzekelo, sele ufune ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Ukusombulula le ngxaki kufuneka uthenge i- tracksuit , khetha iholo kwaye uthenge ukubhalisa. Uyabona, yonke into iyajika ibe yinto elula, ukuba uzimisele ngakumbi.
Utshintsho lwangaphandle
Ixesha lokuya kwisibuko uze uzibuke. Umfanekiso awuyena mntu ndingathanda ukukubona? Emva koko ixesha lokutshintsha.
Ukuqala, ubhalise kwi-salon enobuhle apho abaqeqeshi bezoshishino zabo baya kunika ithuba lokuba bazive njengendlovukazi. Ukuzihlaziya, ukuhamba nge-pedicure, i-manicure, i-hairstyle iyonwabile kukuba ngamnye umfazi ufanelwe. Ukongezelela, apho unokunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela onokuzinyamekela ngayo kwaye uncede ukhethe ukhetho oluhle lokuzikhethela. Ukusuka kwi-salon uza kukhupha umntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo, kodwa akusiyo yonke into.
Ixesha lokuthenga
Zama ukuthenga izinto ongazange uziqaphele ngaphambili: ibhulukhwe ebomvu, izicathulo eziphezulu, iingubo ezimnandi. Yiba nethemba - yonke into yakho. Ungakulibala ukuthenga iziqhumiso eziphezulu zekhontrakthi, ezisebenzisayo, ziza kunceda ukugxininisa zonke izidima, jongeka ngokukhawuleza kwaye uthande ukubukeka kwimiba yabantu.
Ukuba kuwe, sele usuphelile ubomi, ufumane ama-pounds angaphezulu, uze ubhalise kwindawo yokuzivocavoca uze uqale ukutya ngokufanelekileyo. Iziphumo aziyi kudala ukuza, kwaye ukwandisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kuya kuba ngabacebisi abakhulu kakhulu bokukwakha ubomi obutsha obuzaliswe ulonwabo nokuchuma.
Sebenza kuwe
Khumbula enye inyaniso elula: ukuba awuzithandi, akukho mntu uya kukuthanda. Phinda rhoqo ngamaxesha angama-100 - "Ndingowona mhle kunene kwaye ndonwabile", awuyi kubona indlela yokuqalisa ukukholelwa oko. Zibonge, nangona zizinto eziqhelekileyo.
Isiphumo
Ngoku lixesha lokukhangela kwakhona kwaye ubone ubomi bakho, apho kungekho kuhla kwexesha elidlulileyo. Wena ungumfazi omhle kwaye ophumelelayo ofanelwe kuphela okulungileyo. Unomsebenzi oyintandokazi, abahlobo abalungileyo, unxibelelwano olwenza uvuyo kwaye lulethe uvuyo, kwakunye neluhlu lweminqweno ongenakuyiqonda.