Utywala, ngaphezu kwezilwanyana ezinxilisayo kwizilwanyana ezinxilisayo, unalo luhlobo oluninzi lokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala. Into eyaziwa phantsi kwegama lokusela utywala akuyona nengozi kwaye ininzi kakhulu, ngakumbi kubantu. Xa umntu okanye umyeni esela ubhiya imihla ngemihla, abaninzi abafazi bayazibuza - benzani?
Iengozi yoBuTywala
Ubhiya, njengezinye iziyobisi, ngumlutha kunye nomlutha. Abaninzi banamhlanje banamadoda abayithathi i-foamy siselo ngotywala. Iingcali zonyango ziqaphele ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwebhiya yemvelo ngobuncinci bunemivuzo ethile kwimpilo. Kodwa ngokusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke, abantu bahlakulela iipathologies ezininzi. Ukuba umyeni udla ngokusela ubhiya, kuyafaneleka ukuba amfunde ngokugqithiseleyo ngolu hlobo:
- ukungaxhomeki kokuxhomekeka kukunye kwezona zibonakaliso zinyani;
- isidingo se-opohmelke ekuseni-oku kuyimpawu yobunxila;
- Ukusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke-kukuchaphazela kakubi ingqondo kwaye kunciphisa imemori;
- iibhotile ezimbini zebhiya rhoqo ngokuhlwa - oku kuyinyathelo eliqinisekileyo lokunyanyisa nokuthengwa kwesisu esiswini;
- Ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwebhiya kunciphisa ukuveliswa kwamahomoni angamadoda, okubangela ukuba abesifazane babe ngabafazi;
- Ubunxila obunxilisayo yindlela yokuguquka kwentsholongwane kwisibindi, izintso, ukuphefumula kunye neenkqubo zomoya.
Kuthekani ukuba umyeni wam uvame ukusela ubhiya?
I-Persuasions kunye neengxabano ezinengqiqo zinceda iinxalenye zoluntu, ukuqonda malunga neengozi kunye nemiphumo emibi kunokumisa umntu kwaye kumenze amelane nokuxhomekeka . Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa umyeni esela kwaye akayi kuyeka, indlela yokuphilisa aze ancede ukuyeka?
Ukuba umyeni ngokwakhe akayiqondi ingxaki yakhe, kufuneka afune
- Ukupheliswa kokubonakaliswa kokuxhomekeka.
- Ukususwa kolawulo olugqithiseleyo.
- Ukubuyiselwa komsebenzi wezitho ezichaphazelekayo.
- Ukuxutywa kwezinto zangaphakathi.