Ngelishwa, ebomini kwenzeka ukuba iimvakalelo zomnye umntu zipholile. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo lihlala luthando - imeko ebuhlungu, ibonakalisa ukwesaba ukwahlukana . Kwaye ngoko ngokwenene "ukuhamba ngokubuhlungu" kuqala, xa uyazi kakuhle ukuba le nto ayikwazi ukuqhubeka, kodwa awukwazi ukuzikhulula ekuxhaseni. Kwimeko enjalo, umbuzo wendlela yokulahla ukuxhamla kumntu uba ngxamnye kakhulu.
Ngaba ukudibana nomvakalelo kunokuba yingozi?
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngokubanzi, izazi zengqondo aziyihlolisisi ukuxhamla ngokomzwelo njengesiganeko esibi. Ngokuchasene noko, ngaphandle kwayo, uthando ngokwabo lwungeke lwenzeke. Yaye uyinto ebalulekileyo yobudlelwane obufudumele phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, phakathi kwabazalwana noodade, phakathi kwabahlobo, njl njl. Nangona kunjalo, xa kudibaniswa nokuxhomekeka , oko kukubi kakhulu. Kule meko, isinamathiselo sinokubangela intlungu. Kwaye kufuneka kufuneke ukuphepha yonke imikhosi.
Indlela yokuLahla i-Attachment: Iingcebiso eziqhelekileyo
- Musa ukugxila kumntu omnye, zama ukukhulisa isangqa sakho sentlalo.
- Zama ukuzicwina kumsebenzi.
- Ukulungiswa kweZate, okanye ukuhamba-zama ukuthabatha ixesha elide ukuphepha ukushiya kwezinye iingcamango.
- Khangela umdlalo omtsha okanye ubuyele kumntu wakho othandekayo, kodwa ukuzonwabisa okufutshane.
- Yonke imihla, khangela isizathu esitsha sokuzonwabisa ubomi, jolise ukwenza uhlobo olutsha olubukeka ngaphandle kwaloo mntu uxhomekeke kuye ngokomzwelo.
Indlela yokulahla uthando lomntu?
Kubafazi emva kokuzaliswa kolwalamano oluthandwayo, naye, ingxaki ivela, indlela yokulahla isinamathiselo kumntu. Iingcali zengqondo zikwacebisa ukuba ugxile kuwe kwaye ube "ngumntu onobugovu onempilo." Ekugqibeleni, zinyamekele, zihlaziye i-wardrobe, uye kwi-cinema okanye kwindawo yokudlala, hamba uhambo. Kwaye kungcono, zifumene uthando olutsha kumntu oza kukhululeka kunye naye.