Isiqhelo seentlanzi sincokola ngabantu abanobugcisa abavakalelwa ngokunyanisekileyo, abanamava kwimeko nganye, banakho uvelwano kunye nokuqonda okunamandla nokuphendula. Njengomthetho, bonke abantu abaxhatshazwayo bacinga, abafilosofi, abantu abakuthandayo ubugcisa, izinto ezigqibeleleyo kunye nezinto ezisemgangathweni ezenziwe ngabantu kunye nezendalo.
Iimpawu zoluhlobo "oluncibilikisayo"
Abantu abanjalo banamathele ukuba bacinge ngantoni na, banqwenela ukuhlalutya, bathanda ukudibanisa zonke izinto kwiindawo, bazibandakanya "ukumba". Njengomthetho, bonke bahlala besengozini, kwaye igama elibi lingabangela ukuba bangene kuzo ixesha elide, bexakeke kwixinzelelo kunye nobunzima. Ukuthintela oku, abantu abanjalo banqanyulwa kwaye bangavumeli nabani kwihlabathi labo elingaphakathi.
Uninzi lwabantu abancibiliki banamathuba amaninzi ngamahle. Banobuchule obuhle bobuhle, ukulinganisela nokuvisisana. Kwisihlwele, isitayela sabo esingenakusobala siyavela. Wonke amagama omntu onjalo acingelwa kwaye alinganiselwe, emva komntu ngamnye kunengqiqo, asithethi nto njengaye.
Ukuba sithetha ngeenzuzo kunye neengxaki zeempawu ezincibilikisayo, ngoko ubuchule babo obukhulu kukukwazi ukuziva bexakekile, kwaye ukukhankanya ngokuyinhloko ngumkhuba wokuthatha izinto ngokusondeleyo entliziyweni. Enyanisweni, uhlamvu lwabo luyabini, lubapha amandla abo bobabini, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo-isizathu sokuba amava.
Iimpawu zengqondo ze-melancholia
Abantu abanjalo banesimiso se-nervous weak, ayinakumelana nokugqithisa, ngoko ke aba bantu bahlala rhoqo phakathi kweengqondo zengqondo, i-psychotherapists kunye neurologists. Akulungele ukuguqulwa, ngenxa yokuba ziyalondolozwa ngokwemvelo - zihlaziye xa zonke izinto ezizungezile ziyaziwayo. Abayithandi ukuhamba, ukutshintshana ubudlelwane bokuthandana, okanye ukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kuba konke oku kukhokelela ekutshintsheni ngendlela eqhelekileyo yobomi.
Imvakalelo yabantu abanjalo ihluka ezininzi ngezihlandlo ngosuku, kodwa ukwazi le nto ethile, umntu onjalo uya kufihla imvakalelo yakhe ngaphakathi. Yilokho ebangela izifo ezihlukahlukeneyo. Ukucaphukisa umntu onjalo kulula, yingakho kubalulekile ukuba ube nengqiqo kwaye uqaphele ngaye, ngokuba ibinzana elingenakuhlala lihlale ixesha elide ngaphakathi komphefumlo womntu onjalo, kwaye lilinxeba ixesha elide.
Ngokubhekiselele kobudlelwane, abantu abanjalo abahlali, bafuna ukhethwa, bafezeke, kwaye ubudlelwane buhamba ngokwabo. Benza iimfuno eziphezulu kwiqabane, okwenza umtshato wabo ube nzima.
Ngaba u-melancholic?
Kukho iimvavanyo ezininzi zengqondo ezikuvumela ukuba uqinisekise ukuba ungowakho uhlobo oluthile lomoya. Sinikeza uvavanyo olulula, ngamnye umbuzo oyifunayo ukuphendula ngokunyanisekileyo "ewe" okanye "akukho".
- Ngaba uyakrokraza kwaye uyabuhlungu?
- Ngaba kulula ukucaphukisa, ubuhlungu, ngaba usengozini?
- Ngaba kunzima ukuba ulungele imeko entsha, engaqhelekanga?
- Ngaba uhlala ungaqiniseki ngamakhono akho?
- Ngaba uhlala unamahloni, ngaba unamahloni?
- Ngokuqhelekileyo uthetha ngokuthula, ukuba akunjalo?
- Ngaba unomdla kwaye unomdla, uthanda ubugcisa?
- Ngaba unelungelo lokwenza iimfuno eziphezulu wena nabanye?
- Ukuxhalabisa akukukhathazi, kodwa awuyithandi iinkampani zomsindo?
- Nantoni na into encinci inokuphazamisa isimo sakho sengqondo ixesha elide?
Ukuba unemibuzo engama-8 okanye ngaphezulu "yee", u-melancholic. Ukuba u-5-7 - unako ubuninzi beempawu ezincibilikisayo. Kule meko, kufuneka ufumane iimvavanyo ezongezelelweyo kwaye ujonge izinto ezidibeneyo: umzekelo, isimboli se-choleric okanye i-phlegmatic melancholic. Ukuba u-1-4 uthetha ukuba unobuthakathaka obuninzi.