Ukunyamekela umntu kunye / okanye imeko enye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokukhusela ngengqondo okanye isohlwayo. Ngobulula obonakalayo, akukho nto inokusebenza njengolu qhinga olulula. Ingozi kukuba ubuchule bokungahoywa ngokungaqhelekanga kubangela isisombululo sokugqibela seengxaki ezithile, kuba, ngokwenene, yindlela yokubalekela nasiphi na isenzo. Siza kuthetha ngakumbi nge-psychology yokungahoyi namhlanje.
Ukungahoywa njengokhuseleko
Ngokungahoywa, njengendlela yokuphendula ngokukhusela ukuvela kweengxaki ezithile, umntu wenza enye inyaniso, apho kungekho bhokisi yolwazi. Okubizwa ngokuba yi-matrix engamncediyo kukunceda ukuyifumana.
Qaphela iMatrix
Ukungahoyi i-matrix ngumzekelo okhethekileyo ojonga ukungahoywa ngohlobo kunye nezinga. Ezi ngcamango zombini ziyafana kwaye ngezinga elithile zitshintsha.
Iintlobo zokungahoywa:
- ukungahoyi into eyenzekayo. Kule meko, sinqwenela ukubona oku okanye ukuba imeko idala ingxaki ethile;
- ukungayihoyi into yeengxaki. Olu hlobo lokungahoywa lubonisa ukuvuma kwezinto ezenzekayo, kodwa ukwenqaba ukuqonda ukuba loo nto imele ingxaki;
- ngahoywa ngamathuba. Uyabona imeko, qaphela ingxaki, kodwa uyayihoxisa ukubakho kwamathuba okufumana isisombululo.
2. Ukulahla izinga:
- ukungawuthobeli ukufumaneka kwamathuba;
- ukungahoyili ukubaluleka kwamathuba, ukuthetha nje - ukungathandabuzeki kwindlela yabo yokusebenza;
- ukungahoywa kwindlela yokuguqula amathuba;
- ukungahoywa ngamakhono abo, okubandakanyeka nokungakhuselekanga ngamakhono abo kunye nokwesaba ukungakwazi ukusebenzisa amathuba.
Ukungahoyi i-matrix inikeza zonke iintlobo zeentlobo kunye namanqanaba okungahoywa, ukwenza umzobo weentsika ezintathu (iintlobo) kunye nemigca emine (amanqanaba). Indlela yokusebenzisa i-matrix yokungahoyiyo ikuvumela ukuba ufumane loo nxalenye yolwazi engagqitywanga, ukukhusela isisombululo seengxaki ezithile. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uqale uhlolisise iseli nganye, uqale ukusuka ekhoneni elingasentla elingasese le-matrix, uhamba udibanise phantsi.
Kubalulekile ukukhankanya ngento efana nokunyaniseka, xa ukuziphatha kwethu okungenakukhathazeka kubangelwa ukuba asiyi kubona nayiphi na inzuzo, ukuba sithathe inxaxheba kwisenzo esithile. Umzekelo oqhelekileyo ukungafuni ukuya kokhetho, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimiboniso, njl. Kule meko, i-psychology yokungahoyiyo ibonakala njengokhuseleko, kulo mzekelo, ukunyaniseka kuyasikhupha iindleko zamandla.
Ukungayithobeli njengendlela yokugweba
Ngokuqhelekileyo sisebenzisa indlela yokungahoywa, ukuzama ukuphazamisa abanye. I-psychology yokungamnquli umntu kukuba siyaziqaphela ukuba siyibeke ingqalelo kulo mntu sifuna ukumgweba, ukucaphukisa.
Ukongezelela, isizathu sokungayihoyi, ngokukrakra, sinokuba ngumzamo wokutsala ingqalelo. Ngoko, umzekelo, isizathu sokungahoywa kwindoda yendoda ingaba ngumnqweno wakhe wokubonisa loo mntu icala lakhe. Ingxaki kukuba indlela enjalo, njengomthetho, idibana nobudlova kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle. Amadoda
Ngexesha elifanayo, amantombazana athile asebenzisa ukunganakwa xa befuna ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu abathandayo. Kule meko, baxhomekeke kwi-instinct eyaziwayo ngokuzingela.
Nangona kunjalo, ukungahoyili isenzo esingasisigxina, esisebenzisela kuyo, umntu uyazilahlekela amandla akhe kunye noxanduva lwakhe. Khumbula, ngokuqhelekileyo le ndlela ayihlangabezani nokulindela.