Wonke umntu uphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Omnye unokuphika oko kwenzekayo, umntu uzama, ngokukhawuleza ukuba akhohlwe ingxaki, njl. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, iindlela zokukhusela ze-psyche ziza kuhlangula, ezinceda ekupheliseni okanye ukunciphisa amava kunye noxinzelelo . Impembelelo yale ndlela ijolise ekugcineni ukuzinza kwimeko yengqondo yomntu emva kweemeko ezimbi.
Iindlela zokukhusela zengqondo
Uxinzelelo. Le nqubo ibandakanya amava kunye nokuxoshelwa kwiindawo zokungazi. Ukwenza oku, umntu ufuna ukuchitha amandla amaninzi kunye nendlela angazami ngayo, iinkumbulo ziya kubonakala ngamaphupha kunye nengcamango.
- Ukulungiswa . Ukufumana izizathu ezifanelekileyo kunye neenkcazo zento eyenzekayo kunye neengcinga eziye zavela. Le ndlela yokukhusela ijoliswe ekususeni ukuxhatshazwa kumntu ngexesha lamava anzima. Umzekelo unokuba ngumqeshwa owexesha elide lomsebenzi, ngubani, ukuzithethelela, oza kunye neentsomi ezahlukeneyo.
- Projection . Ibonisa ukunikezelwa kwabanye abantu ngeenjongo zabo, amava, iimpawu, njl njl. Le ndlela ilandela ukufuduka, njengokuba ulahlekelwa iimvakalelo zakho kunzima, ngoko bavele baxelelwe kwabanye. Umntu osebenzisa le ndlela yokukhusela ibonakalisa ukungathembeki, umona kunye nokungabi nanyanisi.
- Ukulahlwa . Le ndlela yokukhusela yengqondo ngokwe-Freud inceda umntu ukuba angaqapheli okwenzekayo. Uzama zonke iindlela zokulinda ulwazi olungakhumbuza iziganeko ezibuhlungu. Ukulahlwa kungabonakaliswa kwindalo yecinga
ihlabathi apho konke kulungile. - Indawo . Indlela yokukhusela yengqondo yalolu hlobo ichaza ukukhupha zonke iimvakalelo kwizinto okanye kumntu ongenatyala okwenzekayo. Ukunyuka kwezinto ezimbi, ukuvuya okuqinileyo, inzondo okanye ukuthuka kunciphisa ukuqonda komntu, okuchaphazela kakhulu amandla akhe engqondo nokucinga . Ukuba kuleso sizwe, umntu akakwazi ngokuqhelekileyo ukuvavanya izenzo zabo.
- Iifom zokwenza izinto . Le ndlela isebenza ngokuqhelekileyo ebuntwaneni okanye ebusheni. Ngokomzekelo, ukubonisa uvelwano, le nkwenkwana idonsa intombazana leyo kwii-pigtails. Indlela yokukhusela yengqondo yomntu isekelwe kwimpikiswano kunye nendlela echasene ngayo.