Ukuhlonela ilizwe lakho, ngembali yalo, umnqweno wokutshintsha ilizwe lakho libe ngcono, lenze libe lihle, lixabise kwaye lixabise ilizwe lakho-ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubonakaliswa kobuzwe bonke abantu. Kodwa kuya kuba lunomdla ukwazi ukuba kuthanda ukuthini ixesha lethu, ukuba ngaba abantwana besikolo abanjalo balungele ukuba yintoni eyenzayo, njengabo oomkhulu-ntombi, ababenomntwana oqhelekileyo, bafuna ukukhusela ilizwe labo.
Kwiingcaciso eziqhelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nencazelo yokuthandwa kobuzwe njengothando lomthonyama ulwimi, kwilizwe, kwendalo kunye namandla, okukhusela abantu balo. Ubuzwe kunye nokuthanda izwe akufani, kodwa iingcamango ezondeleyo. Baneenkalo ezahlukeneyo kunye neziganeko eziqhelekileyo. Ukongezelela, ukuthanda ubutyebi kuvela kwisizwe.
Makhe siqwalasele umzekelo wokubonisa ubuzwe nokuthanda izwe. Ngokomzekelo, nganye intsapho iyayithanda, njengekhaya labo kunye nabathandekayo babo. Kodwa lo thando luhlukile. Ukuba intsapho ihamba kwenye indlu, ayiyi kuba lusizi kakhulu xa esinye sezihlobo sife. Oko kukuthi, ukuthanda ubuzwe kukunyuselwa kwenkcazelo yothando lomntu kwikhaya lomntu, kwaye ubuzwe bobuzwe.
Ekuthandweni kwezinto, into ephambili yimeko, kunye nobuzwe - ukuthanda, ngamanye amaxesha kunomdla, kubantu bakubo. Ngokwenzululwazi phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni, ukubunjwa kobuzwe kubakho:
- Yazi imbali yakho, hlonipha amava ezizukulwana ezidala, kwimbali yayo yangaphambili.
- Ukuzinikela, njengelizwe lakho, neyeshishini lakho, iingcamango, imbono, intsapho.
- Ukukhuselwa kwamaxabiso karhulumente, intlonipho yamasiko asekudala.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuthanda ubutyebi kubonakaliswe ngokubhekiselele kwiimpawu zeenkcubeko zelizwe labo, kwaye ngokubhekiselele kubantakwethu. Kukholelwa ukuba imfundo yothando kwilizwe lakwabo kufuneka isetyenziswe ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala, kodwa, ke, u-patriotism ayikhululekile into yokuba ikwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ngokobuhlanga okanye ubuzwe. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, umntu unokuphawula ukuthandwa ngokubanzi kweentlobo ze-neo-fascist kunye neminye imibutho. Kule meko ukuba ingxaki yokuthandwa kobuzwe ibonakala. Wonke umntu kufuneka aqaphele ukuba ukubonakaliswa kobuzwe akuyona inzondelelo, uthando olusendle kwilizwe lakhe nabantu bakhe, kodwa nokuhlonipha abanye. Ukuhlonela ezinye iintlanga, iinkcubeko zamanye amazwe, umntu ubonisa ukuba unako ukuthanda ubutyebi bokwenene, uluthando lokwenene lwelizwe lakhe.
Ukunyaniseka okwenyaniso nobuxoki - ukungafani
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntu uzimisele nje ukuzenza ngathi ngentliziyo yakhe ulungele ukuma kwiimilinganiselo zelizwe lakhe, ukuba ungumntu oyinyaniso. Injongo yaso ephambili kukufezekisa iinjongo zobuqu okanye umdlalo kuluntu ukuze ube nedumela elihle. Lobu buxoki bobuzwe.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukunyaniseka kobuxoki nokuthandana kobuxoki kukwahluke kwinto yokuba yangaphambili isekelwe uthando lokwenene kwilizwe lonina. Umntu akafuni ukuxubusha oku kubo bonke abadlulayo, uyazi nje ukuba unako ukuma kwilizwe lakhe ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ngeli xesha, ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukufumana into enjalo "njengengxaki yokuthanda ubutyebi", obangelwa ngumgangatho ophantsi wokuphila kwabantu kunye
Ukuze ugweme ukuvela kwemibutho emitsha ngokuchazwa kobuzwe okanye ukunciphisa inani elikhoyo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba iimvakalelo zobuzwe kufuneka zivela kwintsapho, ngabahlobo bomntu, ekukhunjweni kwesizukulwana sakhe esikhulileyo esanikela amandla abo okugqibela ngokufanelekileyo kwelizwe labo. Kwaye kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba izithethe ezivela kuzo ziyimfuneko ukuba umntu ngamnye atyuke.
Ngoko, ukuthanda ubutyebi kuyimfuneko ukuzifundisa wena, abantwana bakho, ukususela ekuzalweni. Emva kwakho konke, ngenxa yoluntu olungenalo luhlobo lwemfundo yoluntu lufumana abantu abaneengcamango ezichasene nabantu.