Kuthetha ukuthini "ukuphatha"?

Abaninzi bayaqiniseka ukuba abo banako ukuphatha abantu banokulawula, ngokuqhelekileyo, nayiphi na imeko. Abanye abantu babeka ingcaciso engalunganga kule ngqiqo, ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ngokucacileyo oko kuthetha ukuthatha. Umzekelo obalaseleyo wabantu abaxhaphakileyo ngabantwana abasebenzisa amawaka amaqhinga okufezekisa oko bafuna.

Uyakuqonda njani igama elithi "sebenzisa"?

Abaninzi badibanisa le ngcamango ngobuqhetseba, ubuxoki, ulwazi olungelona nyaniso. Kukho iingcamango ezininzi eziza kwenza ukuba ukwazi ukufumana umfanekiso obanzi. Kuthetha ukuthini igama elithi "ukulawula" - lithonya kwi-psyche yomntu, ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe, ngenjongo yokulawula ukuziphatha kunye neengcamango zakhe . Impembelelo yenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukwenza loo mntu enze oko akuthandayo. Usebenzisa iziganeko zeengqondo kunye nobuthakathaka ukukholisa umntu ukuba wenza isigqibo ngokwakhe, ngaphandle kweenkcukacha.

Indlela yokuphatha abantu - ingqondo

Iingcali zengqondo zisebenzisa kwingcaciso yale ngcamango isalathiso esihle - "imida yomphefumlo," apho, ngoncedo lwezakhono ezithile, ungadlala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-manipulator iyathintela okanye isebenzise iimpawu ezinjalo: ukratshi, ukuzithemba, intlonelo, ukwesaba, njl njl. Abantu abaninzi basebenzisa ukubethekisa njengesixhobo sokuxhaphaza, esinceda ukufezekisa imeko kunye neemeko ezithile. Eli lilungelo lokwenza amanyathelo angaphezulu.

Kwengqondo, kukho izigaba ezininzi zokuxhaphaza, abantu abasebenzisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Makhe sicinge ngenye yazo:

  1. Ukunyanzeliswa kwishishini. Kule meko, imeko iyaqwalaselwa xa umntu esebenzisa iinkonzo zomntu okanye iimveliso, esebenzisa iindlela zokufumana izaphulelo okanye ezinye izibonelelo.
  2. Ukunyanzelisa kwintsapho. Apha, ubudlelwane bubhekiselele, phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, ngoko ke phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kunye nezinye izihlobo.
  3. Ukunyanzelisa kwimfundo, kwimfundo nokukhuliswa . Usetyenziswa kuzo zonke izigaba zobomi: esikolweni, eyunivesithi, njl.
  4. Ukunyanzeliswa kumajelo. Namhlanje, ezopolitiko kunye namanye amanani abasebenzise ngobuchule, oko, ngoncedo lwethelevishini, amaphephandaba, i-Intanethi, izisa abantu abaninzi abayimfuneko kubo ulwazi, olusoloko luyinyani.
  5. Ukunyanzelisa kwiqela. Kuthetha ukuthintana nabahlobo, abasebenzisana nabo, njl.

Iimpawu zokuxhaphaza

Kukho imilinganiselo emininzi eya kunceda ukuqonda impembelelo ethile, njengento yokuphatha: