Umona kukuziva kakubi

Akumangalisi abantu bathi inzondo yinto ephosakeleyo. Awuvumeli ukuba baphile ngokuthula nakwabo bafumanayo, okanye abo baqondiswa kubo. Ukuba nomona ngabantu abasembindini esisondelene kakhulu kukuvavanya kunzima nawuphi na umntu.

Umona weentombi

Kukholelwa ukuba ngumona wesini - oku kuyona ndlela inzima kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo iinjongo zentlalo yolonwabo, ukuchuma, impumelelo, kwaye yintoni eyanelisayo, ivela kubantu abasondeleyo.

Amantombazana amaninzi ajamelana neemeko ezifanayo Umzekelo, umtshakazi onwabileyo, owenza nje umnikelo wakhe kumthandi wakhe, ukukhawuleza ukwabelana novuyo kunye nabahlobo bakhe - kwaye abo, endaweni yokumhalalisa, baqala ukukhumbuza iifom ebudlelwaneni bexesha elizayo. Kwaye ke bayeke ukuthetha nentombazana, befumana izizathu ezahlukeneyo. Isizathu salokhu ngumona omnyama. Iimeko ezifanayo zinokwenzeka ukuba enye yeentombi zifumana umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo, izipho ezibizayo, njl.

Ewe, ukuba uqaphele ukuba iintombi zakho ziba nomona kuwe akubi kakhulu. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, unokhetho olukhethiweyo: mhlawumbi ungabelani noluvuyo kunye nabantu bakho, okanye ungaye uxoxe nabo, okanye uziyeke.

Njengomthetho, umntu uyazibona iimpawu zenzondelelo enempilo: oku kukhangekileyo, ukubukeka komona, nokungabi nandiphavuyo ngempumelelo yakho, kunye nokuhleka emva kwakho.

Ungazikhusela njani kumona?

Yinto enye xa umona ubonakaliswa ngamagama uze ushiye idiphozithi engafanelekanga, kwaye yinto enye - ukuba iyahlasela kwimpilo okanye kwinhlalakahle.

Kukho iimeko xa indoda ephilileyo ifumana ukukhushulwa iya kugula ngokugqithiseleyo ngaphandle kwezizathu ezicacileyo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kuyinto yesiko ukuthetha ngomona omnyama ngendawo yomntu osondeleyo. Kule nxu lumano, umbuzo uvela malunga nokukhusela intsapho kwenzeni.

Indlela eqhelekileyo yokukhusela - musa nje ukuthetha ngesiganeko esibalulekileyo kude kube njalo. Emva koko amandla abantu abanobukhwele aya kufikelela kuwe.

Enye indlela ethandwayo, ukuthetha ngendlela yokulwa nomona - kukuhlala kuthwala isikhonkwane kwindawo ebonakalayo. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, kukholelwa ukuba izikhonkwane ziyakunceda kwilihlo elibi (oko, ngokwenene, likhwele), kwaye lisuka kwi- spoilage .

Kwengqondo, ingxaki yomona isigqibo ngokuhlukileyo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi xa ukhangeleka ngokubukeka kwenzondelelo, kufuneka ufune ngengqondo umntu onoyolo, impilo, ukulunga, ubutyebi, kangangokuthi akufanele ube nomona. Kukholelwa ukuba umnqweno olungileyo uvimba isohlo elibi kwaye awuvumeli ukuba kukulimaze.

Indlela yokulahla umona wenzondelelo?

Umbuzo ohluke ngokupheleleyo kukuba uyabonelela. Le ngxaki inzima kakhulu ukulawula, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, ukuyilahla inokukunceda kuphela umntu onguchwepheshe we-psychotherapist.

Ukuba uqaphele ukuba impumelelo yabanye ayikukholisisi, kodwa iholele kwiingcamango zakho zokwehluleka, oku kuyimpawu ephazamisayo. Okokuqala, zama ukuzenzela ndawonye. Ukuba ubona ukuba uqala ukukhwele, khawuleza uthi kwiingcamango zakhe: "Lo mntu wenza kakuhle, oko kuthetha ukuba ndiya kuba nayo. Kwaye kuye kwaphela kabini - kunye nolonwabo, nempilo kunye nothando. " Umkhwa wokuthumela izifiso ezilungileyo kwabanye, esikhundleni seengcamango ezinjenge "apha, kunjalo, kodwa andinayo!", Uya kukuvumela ukuba uhambe kancane kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ufike kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba akukho ndlela elula yokunqoba umona kunalokhu.

Kwaye, ngokubanzi, ngaphambi kokuba ususe umona, kufuneka ucinge ngendalo. Ukuba unomona ngabanye, ngoko awunelisekanga ngezinto onayo. Okokuqala, tshintsha into ongayithandiyo ebomini bakho - ngoko awuyi kuba nomona.