Ixesha langoku lixesha leengcinezelo eziqhubekayo, uxinzelelo, iingxaki zeentsapho kunye nemiba yemali. Kwaye kunzima ngamanye amaxesha ukuhlala uzolile. Ikhono lokulawula iimvakalelo zabo azixhomekeke kuwo wonke umntu, kuba baninzi, bezama ukuqinisekisa ukuzinza kweemali zabo, kunye nabantwana babo, abanakho ixesha lokucinga ngalo.
Ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo, umntu ngamnye ngumbangela oyintloko wokuvelisa zakhe iimvakalelo ezintle okanye ezimbi. Akukho zimo ezibandakanyekayo apha. Masizame ukuhlalutya indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakho kunye nendlela iimvakalelo ezilawula ngayo ingqondo, ngaloo ndlela zidala iingxaki zokuziphatha.
Makhe siqwalasele umzekelo: masithi batshaya umntu omnye, wamcaphukisa kwaye ngentliziyo ufuna ukuphindisela kuye. Ukuthuka omnye umntu-ke yena ke, uyacaphuka, kodwa uzama ukuqonda indlela yokuphucula ukungapheleli kwehlabathi, apho abantu bayalilibala ukuba bahloniphane njani. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba kuxhomekeke kuphela kumntu ngokwakhe, nokuba uya kuvumela iimvakalelo ukulawula impilo yakhe, imizwa.
Ngoko, ngokwezentlalo-ntsapho, ngaphezu kwesigamu seentsapho kumazwe anamhlanje ehlabathi zibonakaliswe kwiimeko eziphikisanayo eziqhubekayo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukileyo, kodwa zibonakalisa ngokwazo ngokufanayo - ngokubonakaliswa okungaqondakaliyo kwangoko, okuyiloo nto abaninzi abazisola ngayo.
Indlela yokufunda indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakho?
Umnqweno wokuqonda indlela yokufunda indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zivela ekubeni amava angenakulawula, ukunganakwa okanye ukungabi nentswelo yomsindo kunokudambisa ubuhlobo.
Kukho iindlela ezintathu eziphambili ezikunceda zombini ukutshintsha nokufunda indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo:
- Tshintsha into yoxinaniso. Oko ugxininise kuyo yinyani yakho. Tshintsha oko kukukulahleka, kwaye uya kufunda indlela yokulawula isimo sakho sengqondo.
- Iinkolelo. Iinkolelo zethu zichaphazela ulwazi esikuvumelayo ukuba luvunyelwe ukuba lube nolwazi lwethu. Zichaphazela izimo zengqondo malunga neziganeko, inyaniso, njl., Oko kuthetha ukuba inempembelelo nokuba umntu uphoswe okanye cha.
- Physiology. Sekude kwaziwa, kwaye kuqhutyelwa i-yoga ukuba isikhundla somzimba, ukuphefumula kunokuchaphazela iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. I-physics iphakamisa iingcamango neemvakalelo. Sebenza kwimisebenzi yakho. Smile kaninzi, funda ukukhulula umzimba wakho.
Musa ukulibala ukuba iimvakalelo zi namandla, kwaye kuphela kwisimo sengqondo somntu kwiimeko ezithile, njl., Kuxhomekeka ukuba kuya kuba nethuba kuye, nokuba uya kuba yinto enokubangela ukuba utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakhe.