Ukuxhamla kwixesha lethu kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kuyimfuneko kumgangatho wobuntu, kuba amandla okufumana ngokukhawuleza ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu kunye nokubeka oonxibelelwano kuyimfuneko ebomini bomntu kunye nomsebenzi. Kwizicelo zomsebenzi, ngokuqhelekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nomfuno onjalo kumceli womsebenzi, ingakumbi ukuba inkampani ikhangele umphathi wezentengiso, umphathi wezemithombo yoluntu, igosa lobudlelwane boluntu, njl.
Ukuzibandakanya - ukuthini oku kuthetha ntoni?
Kulabo bafuna ukwazi oko kuthetha ukuthintana, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ngabantu abasenokuba ngabanye ebomini bethu. Abahlobo bokutsha okanye osebenza nabo abangakwazi ukufumana amagama alungileyo kuwo wonke umntu kwaye bahlabelele kokubili umtshini womntwana omncinci kunye nomntu omdala osekhulile. Bahlala bebali okanye ibhayisikili kwindawo leyo, bayakwazi ukukhokela ngokucacileyo intetho ingxoxo ngokufanelekileyo xa beziva ukuba ingxabano iyaphuza. Umntu othethayo uvulelekile kwihlabathi, unobungane kwaye unomdla ekunxibelelaneni.
- Uqhagamshelwano lunokuthiwa intlalontle okanye uqhagamshelwano, ukuba ingxoxo engacwangciswanga. "Umphefumlo wenkampani" - ngoko bathi ngabantu abanjalo.
- Kwiingxoxo zoshishino igama elithi "ukuxhumana" lisetyenziselwa, okunceda umntu athathe ulungelelaniso aze axoxisane nabantu abalungileyo.
- Kwi-diplomacy, oku kusemgangathweni olungapheliyo, kuba ngaphandle kokuphumelela kule ndawo akunakwenzeka.
- Ababukeli beTV kunye noonomathotholo, abazonwabisa, ii-DJ kunye nabanye abantu banxibelelwano abanokukwazi ukuthatha nokukhanyisa uluntu.
- Iintanethi zentlalo zinika amathuba amaninzi kubantu abasebenzisanayo, ngokukodwa ukuba banako ukudala.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa intlalontle?
Simele sitsho ngokukhawuleza ukuba akubona wonke umntu olambileyo unxibelelwano unokubizwa ngokuba ngumnxibelelwano. Umzabalazo otyhafile unokuthathwa njengentlalontle? I-brawler, nje efuna isizathu sokulahleka? Abanye bancokola kakhulu kangangokuthi abakuvumeli ukuba ufakele amagama. Uxakeke kwi-chatter engenakusiza ukuba bona ngokwabo abaqapheli ukuba bachitha njani ixesha labo abaxhamlileyo. Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntu onobumba be-laconic kunye nomntu oziquletheleyo utyhila ngokwakhe kwimeko ethile xa evakalelwa kukuba ungene "kwintsimi" yakhe, kwaye isihloko sesincoko sinomdla kakhulu kwaye siyazi kakuhle. Kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukwakha izakhono zakho zokunxibelelana kwaye, okokuqala, kufuneka uzame ukuvula ingqondo ngeminye imibono yabantu.
Ukubonisa umdla kubantu, ukuzama ukuqonda iminqweno yabo, iimvakalelo kunye nokwesaba , kuyimfuneko ukuba baqonde ukuba banelungelo lokuveza ngokucacileyo izimvo zabo kwaye balungele ukuqonda ingcamango yabo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwandisa i-horizons yakho, funda kakhulu kwaye wenze imfundo. Oku kuya kukwandisa ukuzithemba, kuba umntu owaziyo kwiinkalo ezininzi akayi kusaba ukwanxibelelana, uya kukwazi ukuphendula imibuzo kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko, cela okuthile okanye uchaze.
Kuyinto engavumelekanga ukuba ingavumelani, ngenxa yokuba unako ukucaphukisa umnxibelelwano, kodwa ungena emxabaneni naye, ukukhusela umbono wakhe, kwaye ungalondolozi iimvakalelo zomdlali. Umncedi wokwenene uya kuba lihlekisayo: kuya kusoloko kunceda ukunqumla imeko kwaye ulungiselele abadibanisa nabo. Nika abantwana bakho umzekelo omhle wobuhlobo kunye nokuvuleka, kwaye baya kulandela ezinyathelweni zenu, babe ngabantu abanxibelelwano.