Ukukhanga kwabasetyhini yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayinakuchazwa ngokucacileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ubuhle kunye nomfanekiso obalaseleyo awuthenjwa kakhulu kubantu, kwaye imbobo emnyama ekhangelekayo inokuthabatha nantoni na ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na ingxaki.
Ngokusobala, ukukhanga kwabasetyhini akukhawulelwanga nje ngombonakalo, nangona ngokuqinisekileyo kudlala indima, kodwa kungekhona ngendlela esajwayele ukuyiqonda ngayo.
Isibheno sangaphandle
Ukuba ucinga ukuba intombazana enedatha yangaphandle yangaphandle ingaba yinto enqwenelekayo, oko akusiyo ingxaki, ngaphezu koko, kuyinto engokwemvelo, inikwe inkolelo yokubonakala kwintlalo yanamhlanje. Ingxaki kukuba awuziboni ukuba uyabonakala.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba utshaba oluyinhloko lobuhle luyinkimbinkimbi. Emva koko, basenza sigqoke iingubo zokugqoka, sizame, zama "njengabantu bonke" kwaye udibanise nesihlwele. Akunabo abantu abalungileyo, nokuba nobuhle bokuqala banamabango ekubukeka kwabo, kodwa ngaba abanokubhengeza iimpazamo zabo, okanye bazithabathe baze baziphendulele. Ukukhanga kunzima ukuzicingela ngaphandle kokwenzela uthando, okuya kukuvumela ukuba ubone, ngaphandle kweempazamo zesithunzi.
Imithetho yokukhawulela ayinakucingelwa ngaphandle kokukhankanywa kokulungisa. Kuzo naziphi na iimeko zobomi, kufuneka ufumane ixesha lokuzibeka ngokwakho, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uphawulwe. Imbopheleleko yimihla ngemihla, ecocekileyo, enempilo, inwele, i-manicure efanelekileyo kunye nezinye izifo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ezi zinyaniso eziqhelekileyo, kodwa ngenye indlela, yonke imihla sibona abaninzi besetyhini abangahoywa.
Ingqiqo yesita yenye enye yezinto ezikhangayo. Kwaye akukhona malunga neengoma ezivela kwii-catwalks zehlabathi, kodwa malunga neengubo ezikhethwe ngongoma kunye nokugxininisa isidima sakho.
Zesondo isibheno
Ingqwalasela eyahlukileyo ifanelekileyo ngokwesini. Kukho nawuphi na, musa ukudibanisa ne-swag in dress and behavior. Ukuba ukuziphatha ngokwesini kukuheha amadoda njengemethinethi, ke i-swagger ingaphenduki, okanye utshele abanye ukuba ungumlutha olula. Ukukhangwa ngokwesondo kubonakala kulabo bafazi abayazi kakuhle uhlobo lwabo kunye nomzimba wabo, bayamkele ngazo zonke iingenelo kunye nokungonakali. Abangenakuvinjelwa, abafazi abanentembelo, bayazi ukuba banandipha ubomi kwaye abanentloni nhlobo.
Ubundlobongela buyakwazi ukuzibonakalisa nakwizinto eziqhelekileyo: inzuzo yowesifazane, intloko ephakanyisiwe kakhulu, ukubukeka kwintembeko-oku sele i-sexy. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokugxininisa ngokuncedisa iimpahla kunye nokuzenzela, kodwa ngoku malunga nale milinganiselo, ngenxa yokuba unganqumla umda omncinci kunye nobutyebi.
Izimfihlakalo zokuheha
Ukuze siyiqokelele, masenze isigqibo ngokucacileyo oko kwenza abesetyhini banqwenele, oko kufuneka ukukhumbule ukufumana ukwanda kwintleko kumava akho.
- Ukuzithemba. Nangona unesiphene, into oyibekayo ngokuqinisekileyo, ngoko endaweni yokukhathazeka ngayo, qalisa, ekugqibeleni, usebenze kuzo. Ungakulibali ukuba amava akho achaphazela kakubi indlela oziphatha ngayo, ekwenza uboshwe kwaye udibene. Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba wenza kakuhle, abanye baya kukholelwa.
- Ukulungiswa, ukucoceka kwiingubo kunye nezihlangu.
- Isitayela. Zonke izinto kufuneka zikhethwe ngentsingiselo, ngaphezu koko, kufuneka uziqiniseke kuzo. Ungagqoki kwizithende ezinkulu, ukuba awukwazi ukuhamba kuzo, kuya kuphazamisa i-gait yakho kwaye iya kukhangeleka kakuhle. Unomtsalane ngakumbi, uya kujonga isithende esithe xaxa, kodwa ngesinyathelo esiqinileyo. Kwakhona, xa ukhetha ingubo, khumbula ukufaneleka.
- Charm. Kunzima ukuchaza ngokucacileyo oko kubonakalisa khona. Kodwa isimo sengqondo esifanele kubantu, ukunyaniseka nokuvuleka kuya kusoloko kusenza sibe nempembelelo. Zisebenze ngokwakho kunye nehlabathi lakho langaphakathi-imfundo kunye nentetho echanekileyo iya kuthetha ngakumbi ngawe kunendleko ebiza.
- Ekugqibeleni, ungalibali ukuba ungumfazi. Ewe, oku kuthetha ukuba akufanele usebenzise ulwimi olungcolileyo, usebenzise kakubi utywala, ubenokulwa, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo uziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga isidalwa esilungileyo esenziwe sothando. Ndikholelwe, ubufazi kunye novelwano kwenza owesifazane abe mnandi kakhulu.