Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ubulumko kunye nengqondo ngamagama amabini ngomntu omnye, kodwa ngokwenene ezi zihluke ngokupheleleyo. Kule meko, kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuba uqonde uhlobo lunikazi elumkileyo, kwaye yiziphi iimpawu anazo. Ubulumko bubonwa njengamandla amakhulu ngumfazi okwazi ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye nokujamelana neengxaki ezinokwenzeka.
Owesifazane ozilumko uthetha ntoni?
Ubulumko akusiyo i talente yangasese, kwaye wonke umfazi onesondo elifanelekileyo unokufunda. Kukho imigaqo embalwa elula malunga nendlela umfazi ohlakaniphileyo aziphatha ngayo:
- Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukubonisa ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezahlukileyo, oko kukuthi, apho kufuneka ukuba uqine, kwaye xa kuyimfuneko - ithambile.
- Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuphulaphula abanye, okokuqala, indoda yakho. Oku kuyimpawu yentlonipho, ebaluleke kakhulu.
- Abaninzi banomdla kwiliphi uhlobo lolwalamano olumfazi ohlakaniphileyo, kwaye abameli bezocansi abafanelekileyo abanakuze babonise iqabane labo ukuba bahlakaniphile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba amadoda abe yinhloko yentsapho kunye nokufumana ukuhlonishwa kweemfanelo zabo.
- Umgangatho obalulekileyo wesifazane ozilumkileyo ukukwazi ukuxolela wakhe ukhethwe. Kakade ke, oku akuxhatshazi ezinye iimeko ezinzulu, kodwa ezi zinto ezincinci aba bafazi abazikhubekisi. Ukuze ugweme ukungquzulana, uya kubonisa zonke amabango ngetoni yokuzola, kwaye akayi kulungiswa.
- Akaze enze izigqibo ngokukhawuleza kwaye akenzi izigqibo ade aqonde ngokupheleleyo imeko kwaye uthathe yonke ingozi ekujongeni.
- Uyayihlonela wakhethayo kwaye uyamxhasa kuzo zonke iimeko, nangona engalunganga. Uyindoda engemuva apho umntu uya kuhlala efumana iingcebiso. Emva komfazi oyisilumko, indoda iya kubonisa iimpawu zakhe ezilungileyo.
- Awukwazi ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo kwintsapho, kuba ibhinqa kufuneka ibe phezulu kwaye isebenze njengomzekelo kubantwana bayo kwaye ibe yinto enhle kumntu. Kubalulekile ukuhlakulela rhoqo nokujonga indlela obonakala ngayo.