Ngexesha le-Inquisition, batshiswa kwisibonda, bebona ngamanqaku akhethekileyo emzimbeni, bashiye, njengoko bekholelwa, ngamacwecwe kaMtyholi. Nayiphi na ibhinqa eneenwele ezibomvu kwaye engaqhelekanga ngemilinganiselo ethile yokuziphatha ayinakonakalisa. Namhlanje, yonke into ishintshile kwaye igweba i-telecasts apho iifiti zibonakala khona, zangaphandle azifani nabantu abaqhelekileyo. Indlela yokuqaphela umlingo kweli nqaku.
Indlela yokubona umlingo ngexesha lethu?
Kukho ubuninzi beenkolelo zamandulo ukuba uloyiki unakho ukubuyela kwintambo okanye inyoka, ubalekele kwisiqhumane kwaye ungabonakali ebandleni. Zonke ezi ngxelo zingashiyelwa abantwana, kodwa ngokwenene umntu okwazi ukuba ngumlumbi phakathi kwabantu:
- Bajonga ngendlela ekhethekileyo, engeyena wonke umntu onokumelana nayo. Abaninzi abaye baziva ngayo, bathi babalekela ngesikhumba seqabunga, baxubha bobabini ubunzima bomzimba, isisindo, baziva beshushu, njl njl.
- Indlela ekhethekileyo yeengubo. Abagqwenu bayawuthanda abamnyama kwaye bawuthabathe rhoqo. Ukongezelela, zinokukhishwa ngezixhobo zokuqala, umzekelo, amacici ngendlela yemigqomo, imihlobiso okanye imizila yemifanekiso yeempawu eziyimfihlo ezingaqondakaliyo, njl njl.
- Abo banomdla wendlela yokufumanisa umlingo ngokubonakala, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba oku kukude nomfazi omdala ozingxowaniswe ngempumlo elinezibilini. Abafazi abanjalo banomdla okanye bathi "manki". Akunabo bonke ubuhle, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo wonke umntu uyazithemba ngokwabo, ahluke ngobutshane obukhethekileyo.
- Ukuba unako ukufika kumlumbi endlwini, khona-ke unokufumana iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo ezisebenzisayo kumasiko omlingo. Ezi ziquka amakhandlela amnyama, amaqhina, zonke iintlobo zengca, izibuko, njl. Abanye basebenzisa izitho zangaphakathi zezilwanyana emsebenzini.
- Enyanisweni, kwimihla ngemihla umlumbi uziphatha njengowesifazane oqhelekileyo, kodwa ngokuthetha ngokukhawuleza kubonakala ukuba unokukwazi ukuxela ikusasa, ukunyanga, kwaye unike isiluleko esilungileyo nesilumko.
- Ubomi bomntu obunjalo bododa abaqhelekanga ngokuphumelelayo, ngokuba indoda ekufuphi imele ifanele ingamxhaseli umfazi kuye ukuba unokuthi "ukuzilibazisa", ubuncinane uyiphathe ngokulile.
Abo banomdla ngendlela abathakathi abazana ngayo, unokuphendula ukuba bayabona isipho esikhethekileyo ngasinye, bazive amandla. Namhlanje, kukho iindawo ezininzi apho abantu abathanda ukuthetha nabo, bafunde izinto ezintsha baze bafunde ukubonakalisa iitalente zabo. Ngokuchasene nenkolelo eninzi, inokulimaza kwaye inokunceda umntu oqhelekileyo.