Inkonzo yeSikhumbuzo ebantwini bethu yinto yamandulo, enenjongo yokukhumbula umntu ofileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba ngomhla wama-40 emva kokufa, umphefumlo uwela enkundleni kuThixo , apho ikhetha khona apho iya kuwa khona. Ngomsebenzi wokuvusa, ezininzi iinkolelo zidibaniswe, enye ichaza ukuba bayayinika iintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokufa.
Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu olahlekelwa ngumthandayo, wacinga malunga noko akwenzayo ngezinto zakhe. Akunakwenzeka ukuzigcina, kodwa ukuyilahleka yintlungu kwaye ibe neentloni, kuba umntu wayexabisekileyo.
Yintoni enikwa ukuvusa iintsuku ezingama-40?
Phakathi kwabantu kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukileyo, kunye nezinye zazo, ukuba zibeke ngokuthobeka, ziyamangalisa. Ngokomzekelo, kukho ulwazi olusemva kokukhunjulwa, kubalulekile ukusabalalisa bonke abanikezela izitya apho badla khona. Enyanisweni, oku akuyinto engaqhelekanga kuphela, kodwa yingozi. Inqaku elipheleleyo kukuba izitya zibhekwa njengengxaxheba ngokuthe ngqo kweso sithethe kwaye ukuba umntu wakhe uthatha kunye nabo, ngoko uya kuzibamba iingxaki, oko kukuthi ukufa. Nangona kukho ukutya kuthathwa, isitya apho senziwe khona kufuneka sibuyiselwe.
Kwizithethe zamaOthodoki, kukho intsingiselo ehambisa iintsuku ezingama-40 kwaye ingaba kufuneka yenziwe njalo. Ngokumalunga nolwazi olukhoyo, kwiintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokufa komntu othandekayo, kuyimfuneko ukuxuba kunye nokusabalalisa izinto zomntu oshonile kuba bantu abasweleyo, becela ukuba bathandazele umphefumlo. Isithethe esinjalo sithathwa njengesenzo esihle, esibalwa kwisigqibo somnye umphefumlo. Wena ngokwakho, unokushiya izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kwimemori, ezinye izihlobo kunye nabahlobo banokuzithathela zona, kwaye oko kungenakuncedo kufuneka kuthathelwe ebandleni .
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba eBhayibhileni akukho lwazi malunga nokuba kuyimfuneko ukusabalalisa izinto emva kweentsuku ezingama-40, ngoko ke sisisigqibo somntu siqu. Isiphakamiso kuphela - musa ukuphosa nayiphi na into, kodwa kunokuba unike izinto kubo basenokungena ngokufanelekileyo.