Into yokuqala efika engqondweni kumntu okhankanya ukuba ne- spoilage kuye ngokwakhe umbuzo: "Kutheni na?". Yaye lo mbuzo udunyiswa, kuba ngokwenene, ukuze uphephe ukuphindaphinda kwimeko, kubalulekile ukutshintsha into ebomini bam, kodwa, abantu, bacinga ukuba lo mbuzo uphendule nje, njengokuba ithuba lokuzisola kwakhona.
Ndikholelwe, iimpawu zeso elibi kunye nokuhlaselwa kuvela kumntu ngesizathu. Amandla kufuneka avele kwinto ethile, kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, amandla angamandla omntu wesithathu avela kuphela xa thina simthumelele lo mntu unqwenela kakhulu. Iingqungquthela, ubuxoki, ubugwenxa kuthi, sitshintshiswe ibe ngumgudu wokuziphindaphinda kwi-aura yethu.
Ungaziqonda njani i-spoilage?
Ngoko ke, ukuba usukhanyela into ethile, ungahambi ngokukhawuleza kubakhohlisi, zama ukujonga ukuba kukho iimpawu zeso elibi okanye uzilahle. Hayi, abathakathi banokungathembekanga, kwaye kunenzuzo kakhulu kubo ukuba bafumene ukuphazamiseka kwakho, kungekhona ukukhuphelisa ukwesaba kwakho. Kufana namachiza: hamba, uvavanyo, kwaye siya kufumana isifo!
Okokuqala, iimpawu zokuhlaselwa kumntu ziqala (kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi uhlobo lokuhlaselwa) kunye neengxaki zempilo. Ingaba ngumzimba omnene, ubanda obubandayo, kunokubakho ukungabonakali, okanye mhlawumbi ngakumbi kakhulu-isifo esibi ngenxa yesifo, xa oogqirha bengenakuphilisa isifo esinye, fumana enye entsha.
Kwaye uphawu lwesimo sokutshatyalaliswa kunye neliso elibi "eliphangwayo" alifuni ukuya kudokotela, nangona impilo embi. Kukho ukucaphukisa, ukwethuka, ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka, ukudandatheka . Umntu onjalo akafuni ukubona ukubonakalisa kwakhe kwisibuko, uyamoyika kwaye aphephe iindawo ezininzi.
Kwindlu yezinambuzane "eziphangiweyo" (izintuthwane, iindiza) zityalwe, kodwa abamelwane babo abahlali.
Iliso elibi ngendlu
Mhlawumbi, umonakalo awuqondanga kuwe, kodwa ekhaya lakho. Oku kwenzeka emva kokumema abantu abanomona ukuba batyelele, kwaye bona, bebona ubutyebi bakho, induduzo, inhlalakahle,
Emva koko uvakalelwa ukwesaba, ukungabikho kwintuthuzelo kuvela kuwo onke amalungu omndeni. Ngaphantsi kweengxabano zakho zepahla kunye ne-scandals ziqala ukupheka ngaphezulu, ukuqonda komzimba kuyanyamalala. Isibonakaliso esibonakalisa umonakalo obangelwayo kukuba ukuziphatha kwezilwanyana zasekhaya: iikati zifuna ukushiya indlu "eyonakalisiweyo", kunye nezinja zihlabelela kungekho sizathu.
Kukho rhoqo i-hallucination yokucatshulwa apho umntu ekhwaza emnyango okanye ebiza, nangona kungekho mntu apho.
Ukuba amanzi angcwele agcinwa kuloo ndlu, inokuphela. Kwaye kwindonga zingabonakala imidwebo eyahlukileyo.