Umbuzo wukuthi unkulunkulu unika ntoni kwi- christenings unomdla kuphela kulabo bafazi abanokuthi bangayenzanga kule nxaxheba. Emva koko, uludwe lwezipho eziza kuhanjiswa kwi-godson lulawulwa ngokuthe ngqo kwizithethe zesonto.
Yintoni onokuyenza?
- Okokuqala nokuphambili, yintoni kanye oothixo abanokukunika yona. U-Kryzhma unqabileyo wengubo yendalo, apho umntwana usongwe emva kokuba umbingeleli enze ubhedu wakhe kumbhalo ongcwele. Le nto ibonisa ukuhlanzeka komphefumlo wobuKristu, kwaye kufuneka ukuba igcinwe bonke ubomi.
- Esinye isipho somdabu esivela kulabo oothixo abanika ubhaptizo yi icon. Kungcono ukhethe ukhetho olungapheliyo, kuba kufuneka lihambe kunye nomKristu omncinane ubomi bakhe bonke.
- Mhlawumbi uvile malunga nokuba ukunikela umnqamlezo kukuxanduva loothixo. Kwizinto ezikhoyo zanamhlanje, oku akunjalo ngokwenene: Abazali abaninzi bafumana umnqamlezo (ngokuqhelekileyo umnqamlezo wegolide, ophezulu kunye neendleko eziphezulu). Nangona kunjalo, ukuba banokugqiba ukuba umnqamlezo ungaba ngowesilivere okanye enye insimbi esele ikhona, unkulunkulu unakho ukunika umntwana. Lo mbandela ugqitywe ngabanye kwimeko nganye.
- Ukuba kuvela ukuba abazali bafumene yonke into ngokwabo, kukho ixesha elilodwa lokuphumelela ngokuphumelelayo kwinto enikwe nguThixo. Le yiBhayibhile yezingane ezibalabala, eziza kunceda umKristu wokuqala ukuba ajoyine inkolo yakhe. Ukuze wenze ukuba isipho sakho singathandeli kuphela kubazali, kodwa nangomntwana, thatha ixesha lokufumana into enhle, imifanekiso, iibhille.
Xa ukhetha isipho , ungazami ukuyithenga yonke into kanye, ngokukodwa xa unqatshelwe kwiindlela. Xoxa nje nabazali bentsana oza kuthenga, ngokukhawuleza ukuvakalisa imali obalalayo.