Ukuzalwa komntwana ngokuqinisekileyo kubalulekile kwaye kuguquke kuyo yonke intsapho. Kodwa ngaphandle kweemvakalelo, le mcimbi ibaluleke kakhulu kummandla, kuba ummi omtsha welizwe ubonakala, obomi bakhe, njengabo bonke abantu, kufuneka balawulwe yimithetho efanelekileyo. Iingongoma eziphambili eziphathelele ekuqinisekiseni ubomi bomntwana ngaphambi kokufumana ukuzimela zilawulwa ngamanqaku amaphepha omthetho, kuquka neNkqubo yoLuntu, ebeka amalungelo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zomsebenzi wabazali.
Ukuhlalutya umqulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungelelanise amalungiselelo angundoqo achaza ukuqonda inkcazelo yamalungelo kunye nemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yabazali kubantwana, kwakunye neendlela zokulawula ukuthotyelwa nokuphunyezwa kwazo.
Izizathu zokumisela ubudlelwane bomthetho womzali wabantwana
- Unina unxulumene nomntwana ngegazi, ngoko emva kokuzalwa komntwana, unikwe ngokuzenzekelayo zonke amalungelo neemfanelo ezifanelekileyo kwaye kufuneka azigcine.
- Utata uzimisele ngokuxhomekeke kwisimo somtshato somama. Ukuba ibhinqa litshatile, kukho "ukukhulelwa komntwana", oko kukuthi, umyeni wakhe unguyise womntwana.
- Ukuba umfazi engatshatanga, ubaba wengane ubhalisa umntu ovakalise umnqweno waza wangenisa isicelo esifanele kwiofisi yokubhalisa.
- Kwiimeko apho utata womntwana wenqaba ukuyiqonda le nyaniso kwaye, ngenxa yoko, uthatha uxanduva lokukhuliselwa nokugcinwa kwakhe, unina unelungelo lokufuna ukuqashelwa kobuntakwabo enkundleni , ukubonelela ubungqina kunye nokudlula uviwo .
- Ukuba ngaba abazali batshatile kodwa baqhawule, umyeni ongaphambili unokuqatshelwa njengoyise womntwana xa umntwana ezalwe zingadlulanga iintsuku ezingama-300 emva kokutshatyalaliswa komtshato.
Amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi yabazali kubantwana
- ukukhuliswa komntwana akusiyo kuphela umsebenzi ongeke ufumaneke, kodwa unelungelo elingenammiselo;
- Abazali mabaxhase abantwana babo ngemali;
- Abazali banembopheleleko yempilo nokhuseleko lwabantwana babo;
- Abazali banyanzelekile ukuba bafake kwiimpawu ezisisiseko zokuziphatha, ukuziphatha kunye nomthetho osebenza kuluntu;
- Abazali banyanzelekile ukuba banikeze abantwana babo ngemfundo ephakamileyo yamabanga aphakamileyo kwaye, malunga noku, banelungelo lokukhetha isikhungo esikolweni, ngelixa bexhomekeke kwimbono nomnqweno womntwana;
- Abazali abanako ukusebenzisa amalungelo abo kunye nemisebenzi ukuba bangcolise umntwana, oko kukuthi, basebenzise isikhundla sakhe ukuze benze umonakalo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo;
- ukuba ngaba abazali abahlali ndawonye, le nyaniso ayinakususa kubo imfuneko yokufezekisa imisebenzi yabazali ekukhulisweni kwabantwana;
- Abazali abahlala ngokwahlukileyo banelungelo lokusebenzisana nokuthetha nomntwana wabo, kwaye ukuba elinye iqela lizama ukuwinciphisa, linokukhusela amalungelo abo enkundleni kwaye lifumane isigqibo esisemthethweni segunya elifanelekileyo.
Ngokuya kwimithetho emisebenzi kunye namalungelo wabazali, kufuneka bacaphele kwaye bazalisekise ukuba umntwana ahlonishwe njengomntu ozimele ozimele. Oku kunokwenzeka kwiimeko ezilandelayo:
- ukufikelela komntwana kwisininzi esisemthethweni, oko kukuthi, iminyaka eli-18;
- xa umntwana engazange afumane iminyaka yobudala obukhankanywe ngasentla, kodwa ngemvume yabazali sele ingene emtshatweni womthetho;
- kwisiganeko sokuba umntwana uneminyaka eyi-16 ubudala ngaphambi kwexesha elibonakalayo njengezimeleyo ngokusemthethweni.
Ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, ezichazwe ngumthetho, umzekelo, ngenxa yokungakwazi ukukhubazeka okanye ukungalungi komsebenzi womntu, abazali okanye omnye wabo unokuthi anqatshelwe amalungelo kumntwana. Kule meko, abakwazi ukunxibelelana nomntwana, ukumfundisa, ukuthonya. Kodwa ekubeni uxanduva lokunika umntwana izinto eziphathekayo akuyikuzikhulula.