Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abhale ngokuchanekileyo?

Ngaphambi kokuya kwiklasi yokuqala phantse wonke umntwana ufunga kubazali bakhe ukuba uya kufunda enye yezinto ezintlanu aze azi ngaphezu kwanoma ubani. Kodwa ixesha elidlulayo nabazali bayazibona ngokukrakra ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukubhala ngokufanelekileyo ngesiRashiya. Xa kwenzeka iziphoso, oomama kunye noodade bahlala becala ukuba nabani na - umntwana, ootitshala okanye yonke inkqubo yemfundo. Kodwa kunoko, kungcono ukucinga malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abhale ngokuchanekileyo. Lo msebenzi awukho nzima kunzima. Into ephambili kukuba ube nomonde kwaye wazi ezinye iimfihlelo.

Ukufunda ukubhala ngokuchanekileyo

Ukuba umntwana wakho unombono oqhelekileyo, ukuva nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo, oku akuthethi ukuba unyanzelekile ukuba abhale ngaphandle kweephene. Konke malunga nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Uneminyaka eyi-18, ezinye zeengxenye zayo zinjenge-puzzle. Isizathu sokwenza iimpazamo ngokubhaliweyo sinokungagcini kwesebe yengqondo ejongene nokuqwalasela intetho, ukuqhelaniswa kwendawo, imisebenzi yemoto yezandla, kwakunye nokusebenzisana phakathi kwee-hemispheres ezisekhohlo kunye nezilungelo. Yingakho ukufundisa abantwana ukuba babhale ngokufanelekileyo kufuneka baqale ngokuphuhliswa kwayo yonke le mi sebenzi. Yintoni oyifunayo kule nto:

1. Hamba uhamba rhoqo nomntwana evulekile. Uncame kwiimidlalo ezisebenzayo kwikarato.

2. Ukutya okufanelekileyo kukunceda ukuphucula umsebenzi wengqondo. Kucima imveliso equkethe iikhemikhali. Nika umntwana unantambo, ujusi, izithelo kunye nentlanzi.

3. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale, hlalisa intamo yomntwana, iinyawo, iminwe kunye nezandla. Unokuthenga umthamo oyingqayizivele womzimba.

4. Ukuphuhlisa izakhono zamancinci. Kuvela kuye ukuba ukuphuhliswa kwesebe lobuchopho elijongene nentetho yomntwana kuxhomekeke. Ezi zinto zilandelayo ziyakunceda:

5. Dlala nomntwana kunye "nezixeko", "amagama" kunye "nemibutho". Eyona nto ingcono ufunda ulwimi, ngaphantsi uya kuba neengxaki ngendlela yokubhala ngokufanelekileyo ngesiRashiya.

Ukongeza kwimisebenzi yokudala, ingqalelo kufuneka ihlawulwe ngqo ngokufunda nokubhala. Oku kuya kunceda ezinye iingcebiso zokufundisa umntwana ukuba abhale ngokuchanekileyo:

1. Into yokuqala kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba umzali ngamnye ayenze ukuyenza kuyishukumisi somntwana kunye nomnqweno wolwazi. Chaza ukuba kutheni sonke sifunde ukubhala ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye kufuneka afunde ntoni, umdla. Yaye qiniseka ukudala zonke iimeko zokulungiselela ukuphucula izifundo.

2. Khuthaza umntwana ukuba afunde. Zama kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuyivuma kwikhompyutha. Zama ukuchaza ukuba kuphela iincwadi ezenza umntu abe namandla, afunde nokuphumelela.

3. Amagama amaninzi awaqinisekanga, ngoko ukufundisa abantwana ukubhala nokubhala kunokukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokukhumbula. Ukwenza lo msebenzi ube lula kubantwana bakho, zama iindlela ezininzi ezinomdla:

Isifundo ngasinye sifanele sibe nomdla kumntwana. Makhe angene kwihlabathi elimangalisayo lograma, kwaye uya kwenza abahlobo kunye nemithetho yesiRashiya. Uncedo olulungileyo kulo mzekelo luya kubakho kwi-series "Sithetha kwaye sibhale ngokuchanekileyo." Unokwenza uluhlu lwamagama omagama kumntwana kwaye unamathele ngeenxa zonke kwindlu usebenzisa izitifiketi. Ukuhlala behlutha amehlo abo kumntwana ngokuzenzekelayo baya kukhumbula ukubhala kwabo kwaye abayi kuze benze iimpazamo. Yaye kunye nabantwana abakhulileyo unokufunda ngokufanayo incwadi enomdla njenge "Iimfihlelo zokupelisa" (Granik GG, Bondarenko SM, Kontsevaya LA) Bhengeza umntwana wakho ukuba ukufunda nokubhala kulungile kwaye kungekudala uza kuqinisekisa ukuba unokufunda ngaphandle kweephene.