Wonke umntu uyazi ingozi engenakucatshangelwa kwimpilo ngokubhema. Nangona kunjalo, inani labaxhasi be-cigaretti alinakuphela kuphela, kodwa likhula. Abazali bahlala beloyiko lokuba abantwana babo baya kuba nalo mkhuba owonakalisayo. Kwaye xa kwenzeka, ekugqibeleni, wenzeni ukuba umntwana utshaya?
Kutheni abantwana beqala ukutshaya?
Ukuvavanya ulutsha lwe-cigarette luchukumisa izizathu ezininzi:
- uvakalelwa ngumntu omdala;
- inkampani embi;
- imbono ephosakeleyo yokuba ukutshaya kuyimfashini;
- imbono yokuba ukutshaya kunesiphumo sokuthoba;
- uluvo lobuxoki lokuba ukutshaya kubangela ukulahleka kwesisindo.
Uyazi njani ukuba umntwana utshaya?
Abaselula bafihla isinamathiselo sabo kwicuba ngokunyamekela. Nangona kunjalo, emva kokuzama, abazali bayakwazi ukubona "ingozi" ngu:
- Ukulahlwa. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana bawugubungela ngokutshiza, i-hazel leaf, i-toothpaste. Nangona kunjalo, izinto zomntwana, izandla zakhe kunye neenwele zixutywe ngumsila wocuba.
- Ukutshiza amazinyo rhoqo.
- Ukuchitha imali. Umntwana angasenakho imali eyaneleyo yepokethi, kwaye kwisikhwama sabazali uqala ukutshabalalisa izinto ezincinci.
- Ukufumanisa ugwayi kwizinto, iipokethi, isikhwama sesikolo.
- Abahlobo bokutshaya.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfana uya kuphumla aze aphike ukuba uyabhema. Kodwa abazali kufuneka bathathe inyathelo.
Indlela yokululela umntwana ukutshaya?
Musa ukulandela impazamo yabazali abaninzi, oko kukuthi, ukutshitshisa okanye ukubetha umntwana, ukumjezisa, ukukunqanda ukuba uhlale kwikhompyutheni okanye uhambe ukuhamba. Oku kuya kubangela impendulo engalunganga, kwaye umntwana wesikolo uya kutshisa kabini.
Kubalulekile ukukhokela intetho kunye nomoni. Kodwa umlingani wakhe kufuneka ube yimfihlo, ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza, ukuhlambalazwa kunye nosongelo. Ukuvakalisa ukunganeliseki ngokutshaya, xelela ukuba uyacaphukisa kwaye uphazamisekile.
Konke, ungathembeli kwixesha lebhodi yesikolo, enokubangela ukuba uphinde uhlawule ukubonisa ubungqina bakho "bokudala" ngokutshaya. Kungcono uchaze ukuba unokubonisa ukukhula kwakho, ukukhusela umbono wakho, ukuyeka ugwayi kunye nabahlobo bokutshaya.
Ukuphikisa ukugatya imikhwa emibi kungekhona nje ngeenkcukacha ezomileyo zesayensi zempembelelo kwimpilo. Sitshele ngemizekelo ebomini bakho abahlobo, izihlobo, abahlobo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, umntwana ngokwakhe uya kunxibelelana nomntu otshayayo okanye oye wayilahla le ngxaki ngabantu abadala. Umntwana kufuneka abe nombono wokuthi ukuyeka ukutshaya kumanyathelo okuqala kulula.
Abazali abanenkathalo malunga nokwenza umntwana bayeke ukutshaya bangacetyiswa ukuba banike umntwana kwicandelo lezemidlalo. Emva koko intombazana iya kukwazi ukubonisa phambi kwentombazana ayithandayo, kungekhona ngogwayi kumazinyo ayo, kodwa nge-bicep yensimbi.