Kwilizwi elithi "iJubhi" abaninzi abafazi kunokuba babe nolwabizo olubuhlungu. Kunzima kakhulu ukukhetha ukuvuyisana nokuvuya xa kukho inani lamakhandlela kwikhekhe isibalo sokuqala sesele sithathu. Ukuqulunqwa kobugcisa isipho yindlela ehlekileyo yokuhleka kuzo zonke iinkcaso malunga nabafazi beminyaka yobudala bukaBalza kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zengcamango ezibuhlungu zecala lokubhiyozela.
Izipho eziphokozelayo ukulungiselela isikhumbuzo
Izipho zingaba luncedo kwaye zithandane, kodwa ngonyaka uninzi kwaye ufuna ukufumana into engakukhunjulwayo, yangaphambili kunye nehlazo. Emva kweminyaka edlulileyo, ngamanye amaxesha kuyabuhlungu kukuba into eninzi ayenzanga. Ngoko kutheni ungawunikeli iwashi yejubhi ngokuchaseneyo! Kwi-dial, amanani alungiselelwe ukulandelana, utolo luya kwelinye icala okanye zonke iinombolo ziphelile. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, phakathi kwezipho zamahlaya ukukhumbula isiganeko sowesifazane, le yona nto iyona yintsusa.
Kwizitolo kunye nekhoyo yangaphambili kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokukhetha. Imikhono yesandla evulekileyo kuphela eneempawu ezifanelwe! Xa siselula sithatha ukwenza zonke iintlobo zokukhawuleza okanye izenzo ezinesibindi. Ukuba ijubane ayinakukwazi ukwenza into ngaphandle kwesiqhelo, ngokukhawuleza wayifake iimpahla ezinjalo!
Isipho esiyintombazana kwintombazana okanye ibhinqa inokwenziwa. Namhlanje izindlu ezininzi zokushicilela zinikela ukushicilela kwinto! Ama-Mugs okanye i-T-shirts sele sele esincinci, ke khetha into enzima kakhulu! Ungabonisa isikhwama somntu okanye umsila wemoto ukuba loo nto ibhinqa. Ngokomzekelo, kwintambo yemoto yempahla into ethi "Qaphela, PMS!" okanye "andiyena umlingo, ndifunda nje!".
Yintoni umfazi engathandi iilekese? Iintlanzi zokukhumbula isiganeko somfazi singaba iibhasiki okanye amabhokisi aneembiza ezibonakalayo. Ngamabhalana ngamnye bhala amalebula afana ne "ukuphucula imemori," "ukuxhatshazwa," "kwiimeko ezimbi." Kwiphepha nganye ubeke i-candy, i-candy candy okanye enye yummy.
Ukunconywa ngezipho
Akwanele ukuba athathe umnikelo, kuyafuneka kwakhona ukuba unike ngokufanelekileyo. Ngendlela, ukuhanjiswa kwamahlaya ezinokubakho izicwangciso kunokucatshulwa ngezipho eziwusizo. Ukukhumbuzwa kweengoma ezidumileyo ngendlela entsha kuyisisombululo esilula kakhulu kwaye sinokuwina. Kulokho oku kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze ihlaya elincinane. Vumani iqhawe lokubhiyozela ingoma nge-Orenburg shayl ehlayo kwaye ubeke ehlombe lakho umkhonto weklasi ebhokisini.
Ukunconywa ngezipho kungakulungiswa kwangaphambili. Ukuba umbhiyozo ugujwa kwindawo yokutyela okanye i-cafe, izipho zingafihlwa kwaye zilungiselelwe ukuzingela kwangempela. Ingaba ibalazwe lezinto ezixabisekileyo, iingcebiso kwiindawo ezahlukileyo zegumbi (unokwazi ukubeka isithsaba ekuqaleni kombhiyozo wodumo lwababhiyozo kwaye ufihle ingqalelo apha!).
Izipho ezimnandi kunye neenkondlo kumfazi uya kuba yinto engalibalekiyo. Ukuba ubuncinane isalathisi esincinci, ungabhala ezo zinyana ngokwakho. Kwaye ekungabikho kwexesha kubakho ithuba lokufumana iimbongo kunye nezipho zamahlaya kubo kwi-intanethi. Njengomthetho, izipho ezinjalo zezibongo zibonisa izinto ezininzi ezingalindelekanga kunye neengcikivo: umshanelo okanye i- mop , i-slippers kunye nepakethi yeentlanzi ezinomhlathi wamanga.
Izipho zokukrazula zingenziwa nantoni. Mema kwiholide enye yabantu abasondeleyo kunye nabaluleke kunabo bonke abaye babonisana nabo iminyaka emininzi (umhlobo othandekayo wesikolo). Emva koko ubacele ukuba bafonelele ekuphakameni kweeholide kwaye banqwenele bonke, kwaye ngoko, ngokungathi ngengozi, bathi kukho isipho. Kumntu osindayo ngokukhawuleza sifaka isaphetha sesipho entloko yethu kwaye sinike ibhasikidi kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezipho kunye neendinyana ezinamaqhinga ezandleni zethu. Ukubona umntu osondeleyo kwaye obalulekileyo ongazange adlule ixesha elide, kwaye kunye nebhasikidi yesimo esifanelekileyo sisipho esona sihle kunazo zonke nawaphi na amabhinqa!