Elizweni lethu, uSuku lweValentine lugubha ngokutsha nje, kodwa sele ludume kakhulu. Kwaye akumangalisi, kuba ngoFebruwari 14 - iholide ezimbini iintliziyo zothando.
Umlando weSt. Valentine's Day
UValentine, owathi igama lakhe kwiholide, wayehlala eRoma (inkulungwane yesithathu AD) kwaye wayengumfundisi omncinane, onesihawu, onomusa novelwano. Ubomi bukaValentine buhambelana nokulawula kukaKlawudiyo II, umbusi waseRoma, owamhlonela umkhosi wemikhosi yemikhosi kwaye akazange anike amaKristu amaninzi ngetyala. Ukuze agcine imimoya yempi, uKlawudiyo II wakhupha umyalelo onqabela ukutshata kumalungu omkhosi. Umlawuli wayekholelwa ukuba i-legionnaire eyatshata kakhulu ichitha ixesha elide kwintsapho kwaye ayicingi ngokusebenza komkhosi.
Ayikayika ukrakra komkhosi, uValentin wenza uxolo kunye nokuxabana, wabanika iintyatyambo waza waqhubeka eshada nabathandana ngasese. Kwakungenakwenzeka ukuyigcina imfihla, imini ngemihla phezu kwentloko yamafu obabingeleli babuthana kwaye ekupheleni kwe-269 AD. UValentine wathatyathwa. Kungekudala emva koko, umyalelo wakhutsishwa xa kwenziwa umfundisi.
Iintsuku zokugqibela zobomi bukaPalestine umbingeleli zinamagama. Ngokweminye imithombo, wayethandwa yintombi engaboniyo yomgcini wejele. Umbingeleli, esenza isibhambathiso sokungabikho, wayengenalo ilungelo lokumbuyisela. Nangona kunjalo, ngoFebruwari 13, ngobusuku ngaphambi kokubulawa, ndabhalela intombazana enobunzima. Ngokwezinye iinguqulelo, uValentine, ethanda ngethemba lokubulawa kwentombazana enhle, esebenzisa ulwazi lwakhe lwezokwelapha, wamphilisa.
Njengoko kwakunjalo, asiyi kukwazi, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umbingeleli osemtsha wafa egameni loLuthando. Ngako oko akumangalisi ukuba abantu abazange bamlibale ngaye kwaye bakhetha abaxhasi bezithandwa. UValentine, njengomKristu ongumfel 'ukholo, oye wahlupheka ngenxa yokholo, waxhaswa yiCawa yamaKatolika. Usuku lweValentine kwiYurophu yaseYurophu ibhiyozelwa ukususela ngekhulu le-13, iMelika - ukususela ngo-1777.
Yintoni ongayifaka kwiSuku lweValentine?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ngoFebruwari 14, kufuneka ukuba nayiphi na isipho kufuneka sibe yi-valentine ngamagama amnandi kunye nokuvuma kumntu othandekayo. Ukunika omnye i-valentine sele sele isisithethe esihle. Amadoda anika ientyatyambo, iilekese kunye nemihlobiso. Abasetyhini banikela amadoda abo isiphunga esihle, ibhotile yewayini, iikhofflink kunye nayo yonke into, eyaneleyo imfesane.
Iintliziyo zinokudwetshwa, zihlanjwe, ziyimfama, ziboshwe kwaye zitshiswe ngezandla. Izinto zokwenza iintliziyo zinokusetyenziswa ezahlukeneyo: ubuhlalu, iigobols, iintyatyambo ezomileyo, iintsiba, iziqwenga zengubo, ubomvu.
Ukubhiyozela Usuku LukaValentine?
Abathandayo bavame ukucela ukugubha uSuku lweValentine, ukwenzela ukuba le holide iza kukhunjulwa ixesha elide kwintando yesithandane, esinobubele buzele ulonwabo nothando.
Le mini inegunya lomlingo. Bonke abathandi balinda ngoFebruwari 14 kwaye, nangona ziqhwala, abafana bazisa iintombazana zabo abathandekayo izimbali nezipho. Ngokuhlwa, iibinibini ezonwabileyo, zifihlile ekugqibeleni amehlo, zilungiselele isidlo se-candlelit kwindawo epholileyo. Unokubhiyozela Usuku lwabathandwa bonke kunye nenkampani enomsindo. Emva koko, kuya kuba mnandi, kodwa kuya kutshabalala
Ukuba awufuni ukuya kwenye indawo ebanda okanye unomnqweno wokuchitha ubusuku bokuthula, unokuhlala ekhaya. Hlela isidlo sothando kunye newayini elibomvu, ikhandlela, uqalise esibhakabhakeni-iintliziyo. Ukwenza iholide emoyeni, ukuhlobisa indlu kunye neempawu zale mini - iintliziyo, iingelosi, amajuba. Kwakhona umhlobiso obalulekileyo kunye nophawu lomhla wezithandani ziintyatyambo. Indoda kufuneka inike isandi sayo seentyatyambo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akufanelekile ukuthetha ngale nto, kodwa ukuba umntu akakwazi, unokwenza ngokucacileyo ukuba isidlo sothando sisilungile.