Iminyaka eyi-18 - kungekhona umhla wokujikeleza, kodwa bazama ukuyiqwalasela ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Le yimihla xa umntwana edlula ekhulile. Iimeko zeeholide zixhomekeke kuninzi ngexesha lonyaka xa kucetywayo. Cinga indlela onokubhiyozela ngayo imihla yokuzalwa eyi-18 yentombazana ehlotyeni, eyonwabileyo kwaye iqhakazile, ukwenzela ukuba ezo zikhumbuzo ezintle zihlale ebomini bakho bonke.
Iimbono zokubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwentombazana eyi-18 ehlobo?
Kukho indawo ezininzi apho unokubhiyozela igama lusuku - ekhaya, kwiklabhu, evulekileyo. Ekhaya, kulula ukulungiselela ukutya, ukudansa, i-karaoke. Iiklabhu zasebusuku ezinomculo ongahlaziyiyo zenza unxibelelwano olunobungane kunye nolonwabo.
Unokuqeshisa i-tram okanye inqwelo ekhwele ihashe, uyihlobise ngeebhola, uhlabelele iingoma kwaye ugibele umzi.
Kuphi ukubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwe-18 kwintombazana ehlobo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwindalo. Uhlobo lwexesha lokuzalwa luhlobo oluninzi lwezinto ezikhethiweyo - iipikiniki zasemaphandleni , ngaphandle kweendawo zokuhamba ngaselwandle, ukuhamba ngeentente, uhambo oluya olwandle.Ukuhamba phezu kwamanzi kuya kuba kukuthanda kwakho. Ukuhamba ngesinqanawa okanye isikebhe kunye neelwandle ezintle kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo phantsi komculo ovuyayo kuya kuba yinto yokuzonwabisa kunye neyokuqala.
Imisebenzi esebenzayo nayiphi na inkampani yabahlobo iya kuyayixabisa. Ubuhle bemvelo kunye nomoya omtsha unokuxhaswa ngokukhwele amahashe, iinqwelo zeebhasi kunye nokulungelelaniswa kwekart.
Ngenkampani enonwabo, unokuhlela umcimbi webala lolwandle kwisitala saseHawaii. Iikhati kunye namafutshane, iintambo zeHawaii ezenziwe ngeentyatyambo okanye iphepha, iziyobisi kunye neesambulela ziza kunika ingcamango yokuba inkampani iye yafudukela kwisiqithi senkangala.
Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-18 umntu uyazimelela, unembopheleleko yezenzo zakhe. Umhla wokuzalwa onomdla uya kunika itikiti elihle kakhulu ukuba ube ngumntu omdala, uya kushiya imemori enhle kakhulu.