Bonke abantu bathanda abalinganiswa. Ngokomzekelo, ngomhla wokuqala intombazana ithemba ukufumana imbali yeentyantyambo kumntu njengesipho, eya kuba ngumqondiso wokungakhathaleli kwakhe. Kwakhona, amaqhosha okubandakanya ayenamatshwayo , eyaziwayo, aphephe uthando lwabesandul 'ukutshata, abe yindlela yokubonakalisa. Kodwa ukuba ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ungasebenzi, kodwa ulwalamano lukhulu kakhulu kwaye ndifuna ukuba babe nolunye uhlobo lwaloo mqondiso? Okanye nangona umtshato sele usele, kodwa ndifuna ukuba isibini sinento efanayo, ngaphandle kwamasongo? Kule meko, ukuphuma okulungileyo - iimbobo eziphindwe kabini kubathandi. Ngoku unokufumana iindidi ezahlukahlukeneyo, ngoko unokuqiniseka ukuba awunakuze udibane nomntu onobubele obufanayo kuloo mzi njengawe. Kodwa makhe sijonge ngokubhekisele ukuba zeziphi izibophezelo zintando kunye nendlela yokuzikhetha.
Ixesha lesithandana kubathandi
Imihlobiso yamabini yinto ekhethwa kakhulu, njengoko ikhangeleka kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo banqunyanyiswa omnye, olwahlula ngamacandelo amabini. Ininzi la ma-coulombs abathandi bayabumba isimo senhliziyo, esibonisa uthando. Intliziyo inokuhlulwa ibe ngamacandelo amabini, kodwa kukho enye inketho, xa i-pendant yona ngokwayo iqulethe iintliziyo ezimbini, ezincinci zazo ezifakwe kwinkulu. Ngokubanzi, kukho inketho ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, kunokubakho iintliziyo ngamaphiko okanye zenziwe kwisitayela esithandwayo se-steampunk kumacangci amancinci, ekhangeleka kakhulu kwaye angavamile ngenxa yeendidi ezahlukeneyo.
Kwakhona, ikhefu eliphindwe kabini kwiintando onokuzithengela kwiindawo ezininzi zeentsimbi ezinobunxibo okanye i-oda evela kumphathi, ukuba ufuna ukuba yedwa yoluhlobo lwayo. Kodwa nangona uthenge isantya kwisitoreji, uya kuhlawula ngamandla akho kwaye luhlobo lokumiswa onalo, njengokuba kungekho mntu uya kuthanda.
Inkondlo yabathandi abanesithombe
Akukho imfuneko ukukhetha imihlobiso emibili , ehlanganiseneyo ibonisa enye enye, kuba unokuthabatha imihlobiso emibini nje efanayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukhetho oluhle - ezi ziyi-pendants apho ungafaka khona iifoto. Ngokuqhelekileyo bahluke ngokuklanywa kakuhle, okuhambelana naluphi na uhlobo lwesambatho, ukuze loo mhlobiso inokugqithiswa ngaphandle kokususa. Ukongeza, kunye nawe akusoloko kukhankanywe kakuhle, kodwa kunye nesithombe somntu othandekayo, onokuyithanda kuyo nayiphi na umzuzu xa ufuna nje. Ngoko ezi zibophelelo zithandani ezimbini kwizinto ezintle zingcono kunezinye.
Imihlobiso yabathandana ngamagama
Enye into enomdla kukubhala igama lakho kwiimbobo. Kule meko, inokumiswa kokuphindwa kabini, okanye nje imihlobiso emibini encinane efanayo, umzekelo, kwakhona, ngesimo senhliziyo, okanye ngokukhawuleza, njalo njalo. Ezobizwa ngokuba ziintando zothando ziya kuba zizodwa, kuba uya kuziva ukuba bangabakho kwaye bayingxenye yenu. Ukongeza, ukwenzela ukuba uzive uhlala khona kwesiqingatha sakho esilandelayo, unokutshintshela imihlobiso yakho: umfana uza kuguba i-pendant ngegama lakho, kwaye nawe-nayo. Ngexesha elifanayo, akufuneki ukuba bagqitywe lonke ixesha, kubhekene noko, bafihlakele phantsi kweengubo ukuze bagxininise ukuba bayinto yobuntu, bathandekayo entliziyweni.
Ngezantsi kwegalari ungabona imimiselo yendlela imihlobiso entanyeni ifana ngayo. Ngokusekelwe kwezi zithombe, unokwenza isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi intsimbi enokuyithanda yona kunye nomthandi wakho.
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