Ukuba sinika inkcazelo elula yegama elithi "ukungquzulana", sinokukwazi ukubonakalisa ngokucacileyo intsingiselo yayo kula magama alandelayo. Ukungquzulana xa umntu othatha inxaxheba (umhlaseli) enza amanyathelo okuzenza ngamabomu ngokumelene nomnye, kwaye okwesibini, uyaqonda ukuba umhlaseli usebenza kwingozi yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, inxaxheba yesibini (umdlali) uyithatha amanyathelo okwenza umonakalo kumhlaseli.
Ubuncedo kunye nokulimala kwempikiswano kwakungqubuzana ukusuka kwangoko kanye le ngcamango yenziwe. Ukuze siqonde kangcono uhlobo lwalo lonke, siya kuqwalasela ingxabano ngokubanzi kwiinqanaba zophuhliso.
Ukulungiselela
Isigaba sokuqala ekuphuhlisweni kweengxabano zentlalo kukuqokelela kweemeko "zokuqhuma".
Umzekelo:
- ubunzima bokuthetha - xa iqoqo lingafumani ukuqonda okufanayo;
- iimpawu zendawo yomsebenzi - isitayela sobukhosi bobunkokeli;
- iimpawu zomntu zabasebenzi.
Ukuxabana emoyeni
Isigaba sesibini esibalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni imbambano yindlela yokuxabana, ukuthanda okubi, ukuxhatshazwa kwimoya yeqela elisebenzayo. Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba sele beyazi ukuba kungekudala into iya kwenzeka.
Vula ingxabano
Isigaba sesithathu, ngokwenene, ingxabano ngokwayo. Isigaba esivulekileyo sokuphuhliswa kwengxabano sibonakala ngeendlela zokusombulula ingxaki , isitayela sezenzo zamalungu ekuxabaneni:
- Ukubambisana kukunyaniseka kwiminqweno yakho, nangona oko kuya kubachaphazela njani abanye;
- ukunyanzelisa - injongo yokubingelelwa inxalenye yeminqweno yabo egameni lamanye amaqela ekuxabaneni;
- intsebenziswano - macala omabini azama ukwaneliseka ngokuthandana nomdla;
- Ukulungelelaniswa kukunyanzeliswa kwemiba yakho xa kuthelekiswa neminqweno yomdlali;
- ukungahoywa ngquzulwano - amaqela enze sengathi akukho nto eyenzekayo, uzama ukuphepha ukuxabana nabachasi.
Kwisigaba sesine, abathathi-nxaxheba bahlanganyele ekuphunyezweni kwamaqhinga, okwamkelwa kwisigaba sesithathu.
Isiphumo
Isigaba sesithandathu ekuphuhliseni imbambano kubonakala ngeziqhamo
Ukuqwalasela ukuba kwada kwafika ngowe-1940 ukuxabana kwakucatshangelwa into eyingozi kwaye ayimkelekanga kwimimoya esebenzayo, kwaye emva kwe-40s kunye ne-70s-isisombululo esihle kakhulu sokuphuhliswa kunye nobukho beqela elisebenzayo, namhlanje asikwazi ukuphendula le mpendulo ngokungapheliyo . Kunokwenzeka ukuba kunyanzelekile ukuba ugwebe ukusetyenziswa okanye ubungozi bokuxabana emva kokuba unqatshiwe, xa amaxhoba kunye nelahleko zibaliwe, kwaye ukufunyanwa kuye kwachazwa.