Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu ebomini bakhe ubuncinci beva okanye beyazi kakuhle imeko efana ne-vuja. Ingomzuzwana owudlulileyo-intlanganiso, intetho, ukuziphatha kunye neentetho, kubonakala sengathi sele ufumene oku. Ngesi sizathu kuyaqondakala ukuba kutheni abantu bebuza imibuzo kwaye bazame ukufunda le mzuzu ngokubanzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zibonakalise ukuba imfihlelo yale miphumo ikhona kwimisebenzi yengqondo, kodwa akukho mntu uye wafunda kwaye wazama kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba ukuphazamiseka okuncane kwimisebenzi yengqondo kungenza umntu oyisithulu, angavumelekanga, angaboni kwaye abakhokele abanye ziphumo.
Yintoni ebangela i-deja ibonwe?
Kukho imbono yeendlela ezimbini kwi-vu ye-vu. Abanye bathi le nguphawu lokukhathala okugqithiseleyo kwengqondo, abanye - ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba oku kungumphumo wokuphumla. Uphando olunzulu lwelo qela lwenziwa noSigmund Freud kunye nabalandeli bakhe. Ngokwenzululwazi, ukuvakalelwa "sele kwenzeka" kuvela kumntu ngenxa yovuko kwimemori yeengcamango ezingenanto. Ukuba uthetha ngamagama alula, i-deja vu inokuvela kubantu abaphuphayo okanye bacingisise ngento ethile, kwaye emva kwesikhashana i-fantasy yabo yaba yinyani.
Uninzi lwamaxesha athile uvakalelo lwe-deja lubonakala ngexesha elide-ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-16 ukuya kwe-18 okanye ukususela kuma-35 ukuya ku-40. Ukutshiza ngexesha elincinci kunokuchazwa ngokukwazi ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokutshintshisisa imicimbi ethile. Isiqhamo sesibini sisoloko sihambelana neengxaki zeminyaka ephakathi kwaye zidla ngokuba yi-nostalgia, umnqweno wokubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo. Impembelelo yolu hlobo ingabizwa ngokuba yinkohliso yememori, kuba iinkumbulo zingenakwenzeka ngokwenene, kodwa kuphela ukucinga, oko kukuthi, kubonakala kumntu ekugqibeleni yonke into yayiphelele kwaye uyaphoswa kula maxesha.
Kutheni kwenzeka ukuba i-deja ibonwe?
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zalawula iminyaka emininzi ukuze zibone ukuba ziphi iingxenye zengqondo ezibandakanyekileyo kwaye zinike inkcazo ye-deja ebonwayo. Qaphela ukuba inxalenye nganye yengqondo ixanduva lokukhetha imemori eyahlukeneyo. Kwimbali yangaphambili yolwazi malunga nekamva, ixesha lexeshana lijongene nexesha elidlulileyo, kwaye eliphakathi okwangoku. Xa zonke ezi zinto zisebenza ngokuqhelekileyo,
Enyanisweni, akukho nto ichasayo - eyadlulayo, ikhoyo kunye nekamva zikhona kwingqondo yomntu wonke ngokungenamkhawulo, ngokulandelanayo, ukuba umntu usegaleni lokufumana, ingqondo yakhe iyakha indlela yokuphuma kwimeko, ngokusekelwe kumava adlulileyo okanye kumnandi. Ngeli nqanaba, zonke iindawo zengqondo zisebenza ngokufanayo. Ukuba kuninzi phakathi kwexesha elifutshane kunye nexesha elide lokunxibelelana, umnikelo ungabonwa njengaphambilini, le ngcaciso yeso sizathu siphumelelo salo.