Cinga ngomntu ophakathi. Yena, njengabo bonke abantu abakujikelezile, ngumntu ogcwele iimbono zehlabathi kunye neempawu zomntu ngamnye. Uyakhunjuzwa ngabanye ngothando olumangalisayo, oluchaphazelekayo kunye nolunqobileyo. Kutheni le mntu ethola inkcazo enjalo? Abanye bayakuthi le yindlela yakhe. Kwaye baya kulungile. Kwaye abanye baya kuthi konke kuthethwa ngaye. Kwaye baya kulungile. Ngoko ke umehluko phakathi kobugcisa kunye nomoya? Makhe sibone ukuba ezi ngcamango zinento efana.
Umntu kunye nesimo somntu
Ubudlelwane phakathi kobubele kunye nomlinganisi sele kufundiswe iminyaka emininzi ngabafundi abaziintsholongwane. Ngenxa yoko, bekukho iingcinga ezi-4 eziphambili malunga nolwalamano kwezi zimbini:
- Iqonga lichazwe ngumlingiswa.
- Iqhinga lichasene nomlingiswa.
- Iqonga liyabonwa njengento yelungu.
- Iqonga libhekwa njengento ebalulekileyo yomlingiswa.
Ukuba sicinga ngokuchazwa kwezesayensi zengqiqo, iimpawu ezahlukileyo zengqondo zibonakaliswa ngakumbi:
Iqhinga lidibanisa iipropati ze-psyche ezichaphazela ukuziphatha komntu kunye nomsebenzi wakhe. Imemori, ukukhawuleza kokucinga, isantya sokuxinwa kunye nesingqisho somsebenzi - kuba konke oku kuhambelana nenkqubo yesifo somntu, ebonwa njengento ebalulekileyo ekubunjweni kolunye uhlobo lweempawu. Kukho ezine zazo:
- i-choleric - kuba abantu balolu hlobo ukuhamba kwenkqubo ye-nervous is character. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bengalingani. Bakhawuleza baphelelwe ngumsindo kwaye ngokukhawuleza bahlalise;
- i-sanguine - abanini beli hlobo lomoya bavulekile kwaye banoluntu, kodwa isimo sabo sengqondo kwihlabathi asikho. Ngokukhawuleza baqhotyoshelweyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza bangabi nantoni na yonke into ejikelezileyo;
- i-phlegmatic - abantu abanolu hlobo lwesimo sengqondo banikezwa isihloko sokuphelisa nokungazinzi. Bayanenzondelelo kwizenzo, bengenangxaki kwaye bengakhathazeki;
- I-Melancholic - olu hlobo lubandakanya abantu abasengozini kwaye bavame ukuvalwa. Zisoloko zixhomekeke ekubeni zisoyike kwaye zenzeke.
Umntu - ngokuchaseneyo nomoya, luqoqo lweempawu ezibonakaliswe ngokuphathelele izinto kunye nezinto zehlabathi elijikelezile. Umlingiswa uphinde wenziwe ngumsebenzi we-psyche, kodwa ngokungafani nomoya owenzelwa umntu ngokwemvelo, uyakheka kwaye uguqulwe ebomini. Ubume bomntu buchatshazelwa yimicimbi enjengomphakathi, imfundo, umsebenzi, njl.
Abaninzi beengqondo bezama ukunika uluhlu olucacileyo kumlingisi. Nangona kunjalo, uxhamlwano phakathi kobugwenxa kunye nomlinganisi aluvumelekanga ukuba lube lucocekile, kwaye ngoku iindidi ezinobuntu ezinqwenelekayo, ezinengqiqo nangokomzwelo zihlala zixhunyaniswe nje ngempembelelo yoluntu, kodwa kunye neempawu zendalo zendalo.
Ukongezelela, umlingiswa unokuhlelwa ngubukho bezinto ezahlukeneyo:
- Isimo sengqondo (ukuzithoba, ukuzingca, ukuthotywa);
- isimo sengqondo kubantu abakujikelezile (ukunyamezela, ukunyaniseka, ukuphendula, njl);
- isimo sengqondo somsebenzi (amandla, ukunyamezela, uvila);
- isimo sengqondo kwizinto ezizungezile (ukukhwaza, ukuchaneka).
Ngaloo ndlela, iimpawu zobumnandi kunye nomlinganiso ziqulethwe kukuba zihlala zididekile, zibiza iimpawu ezingabonakaliyo zomntu ukubonakaliswa kwe-psyche kunye nokunye, ukuchaza izinto ezifunyenweyo kuluntu njengempahla nganye yenkqubo yeentlanzi.
Enyanisweni, kunokwenzeka ukuhlukanisa ezi zimbini ezicacileyo. Ulwalamano lwesimo kunye nomlingiswa lungaboniswa ngale ndlela:
- umlinganiso - isethi sempawu ezifunyenweyo, kunye nesimo sengqondo - ukuzalwa komntwana;
- Umlingiswa unokutshintsha phantsi kwefuthe leemeko zobomi, kwaye isimo sengqondo asihlali sitshintshile;
- Ingcamango yomlinganiso ayinakukwazi ukuhlula, ngokuchasene nomoya;
- umlinganiso kunye neempawu zawo ziyakwazi ukuhlolwa, kwaye isimo sengqondo asiziboleki.
Isimo kunye nomlinganiso uya kuhlala udideke kunye nomnye. Nangona kunjalo, ngo-tandem badala ubuntu obunobunye, obuya kuhlolwa rhoqo ngaphandle. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, iimpawu zakhe ezingenangqondo zihlala zihambelana neentlawulo ezifumanekayo.