Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba loo mfanelo yokuziphatha iyaziwa, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu ocinga malunga nendlela enzulu ngayo le ngcamango kwaye, okokuqala, yiyiphi inkunzi eyaziwayo. Ummiselo oqulethwe ukubonakaliswa komsebenzi wokuziphatha ukhuthaza umntu ukuba enze ngokuvumelana naye ngaphandle kweminqweno yakhe yokwenene kunye nezinto azikhethayo. Ukwenza ukhetho oluqinileyo ekuthandweni kwemigaqo yokuziphatha kunye nokuzincama kwethu, okokuqala sibonisa amandla okuziphatha kunye nokuthanda, ukunamathela kwezo zizathu ezikholelwa kukho ukusebenzela ubulungisa kwaye zenzelwe ukwenza ihlabathi lizungeze ngakumbi kwaye kucoca kunokuba.
Musa ukulimaza!
Kuzo zonke iinkonzo zehlabathi kunye nezithethe zembali zabantu abahlukeneyo, isazela kunye nomsebenzi, njengemilinganiselo yokuziphatha, bebehlala bebekwe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Kwaye namhlanje, umgaqo othi "Musa ukulimaza!" Uxoka ngesiseko solawulo loluntu kunye nenkqubo yomthetho malunga nehlabathi lonke eliphucukileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, iimeko ezahlukeneyo zingavela ebomini kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kunzima ukwenza ukhetho, kodwa ngenye indlela, wonke umntu wenza oko isazela esichazelayo (okanye ivumela). Zilungile njani izigqibo esizifumanayo nokuba ngaba zifanele ukuhlawulela, ngokuqhelekileyo zibonisa ixesha. Kodwa amava abonisa ukuba into eyona nto ikona kukuba ukhethe kwizinto ezimbini ezimbi kwaye kulo mzekelo, ukubaluleka kokukhetha okufanelekileyo kokuziphatha kunye nomsebenzi kufumana intsingiselo ekhethekileyo, ngakumbi xa kufikelela kwimpilo yabantu.
Abanye abantu bajamelana nale ngxaki ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunabanye, ngenxa yobungcali babo, umzekelo, oogqirha, abapolitiki okanye umkhosi. Kodwa nangona "abantu abathandayo" banenkathazo eninzi ebomini, ingakumbi xa kufike ixesha elibi, ukutyhila zonke iimpawu zomntu kunye nokuziphatha okubi.
Yintoni oyikhethayo?
Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zomsebenzi wokuziphatha: ityala lokusingqongileyo kunye netyala kuluntu ngokubanzi. Kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba abantu bakhethe phakathi kwabo. Kodwa bobabini, ngokwazo, bahlula babe ngamaqela. Ngokomzekelo, ityala kwiintsapho libandakanya inzuzo yalo, kwaye ityala kuluntu lingaba kuphela kwintlawulo ethile kwinxalenye ethile yalo, ngokukodwa, kubameli beqela elithile lezentlalo.
Kukho nawuphi na umgangatho, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha elandelwa ngumntu ihlala isetyenziswe phambi kwayo imida engahambiyo
Ukuzisola malunga nezigqibo ezingalunganga kusoloko kunempembelelo ekubhubhiseni kwi-psyche kunye nokuphuhliswa kobuntu buntu, ngoko kuya kufuneka ukuba uhlale ufanelekile ukukhumbula iimpawu zokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Kodwa umbuzo wendlela esinokukwazi ngayo ukwenza oku, wonke umntu kufuneka azibuze yena.