Izizathu zokunganakwa kunye nobuvila zihlukile: oku kungabangela iziphumo zobomi bomntu okanye umsebenzi, ukungaqondani kwezihlobo kunye nezihlobo. Isizathu sinokusebenza ngokweqile , ukungabikho kweenjongo okanye umsebenzi ongathandekiyo. Nangona ukungabikho kombuso kunokubangela ukunganakwa, ubuqili nokulala.
Njani, emva koko konke, unokuyithatha ubuvila kunye nokunganakwa?
Okokuqala kufuneka ufumane izizathu zobunkohliso nokunganakwa. Ukuba ingxaki iphezulu, ngoko kufuneka uvumele ukuphumla kweentsuku ezintathu. Iphupha elipheleleyo, uhamba, usebenze kunye nezinto ozithandayo ezikukhuthazayo kwiimpawu ezintsha. Thatha iivithamini zakho eziyinkimbinkimbi kwaye usebenzise umzimba ekuseni. Kwimizuzu engama-15 yomsebenzi onjalo iya kukunika ixesha elide lovuyo. Yenza ngcono ukuba uyenze ngomculo.
Ukuba isizathu singathandwa ngumsebenzi, ngoko umbuzo wendlela yokunqoba ubuvila nokunganakwa kungagqitywa nje ngokutshintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi. Nangona ngexesha langoku le khetho ayinakwenzeka, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukubeka indlela kwixesha elizayo: zama ukunikela iiyure zokuhlwa kunye neveki kwixesha lakho lokuzonwabisa. Khangela iindlela zokuqala ukufumana ibhizinisi lakho ozithandayo. Xa imivuzo ilingana, unokushiya ngokusemthethweni umsebenzi ongathandiyo.
Ukuba isizathu sokunganakwa kunye nobuvila ekungabikho kwirejista, zinike ukulungiswa kwangoku, kungekudala ngaphambi kwe-22.00. Ekuseni uya kuziva ulunge ngakumbi, ukuba nje ingqondo ihlala nje kwixesha elide ukususela ngo-22.00 ukuya kuphakathi kobusuku. Kwaye ukuvuswa kwangaphambili kuza kunika umva wosuku olupheleleyo. Hlalani ubuncinane ngeveki kule mode, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubona zonke iingenelo zayo.
Ukuba isizathu sokungazinzi kwengqondo kubangelwa ziziingxaki kunye nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo, ngoko kufuneka uphendule le ngxaki okanye utshintshe isimo sengqondo kubo. Nangona zonke izinto ziwela ezandleni, kwaye akukho mnqweno wokwenza nantoni na, unokufunda okanye ukuphulaphula inkambo yokucinga okulungileyo. Funda ukuyeka iingxaki. Ngokugxininisa kubo, uyenzela ukwandisa imeko kwaye ukwandisa imeko yakho. Sitshintshela kwinto enomdla kwaye uyakhuthaza kwaye uqaphele ukuba ngesimo esihle kakhulu ingxaki iza kuxazululwa lula.
Ulungelelaniso
Ukuba isizathu sobudenge nokunganakwa kukuba ukungabikho kombutho, kufuneka ufunde ukusekela iinjongo. Ngosuku, inyanga, ngonyaka. Zama ukufaka urhulumente kwaye wenze zonke izinto ezingamnandi ekuseni. Thatha ikhefu, tshintshela kwenye into imizuzu eyi-15. Ungakwazi nokudlala ukhuphiswano nawe. Zama ngosuku lokuqala ukwenza zonke iimeko ngendlela eqhelekileyo, elandelayo-ukugqiba ngaphambili kwimini eyi-15. Ukuze intshaba ikhuthaze. Makube izinto ezincinci, kodwa zizonwabe. Yaye uzame ukuzibonelela ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba ugqiba okuyimfuneko
Ukuba ishishini lakho lizisa imali, ke cinga ukuba unokongeza ukuthenga, ukuba wenza okungakumbi. Ungakulibali ukuba uhambahamba imihla ngemihla kwaye udlala umrhumo wezemidlalo uze unike isimo sengqondo . Kwaye akufuneki ukuba usebenze ekuseni. Unokukhetha ukhetho olumnandi. Efana nokudansa, ukuzivocavoca okanye ukubhukuda. Xa ukhetha isifundo ekuthandeni kwakho, awusayi kuphinda ucinge ngendlela yokulahla ubuvila ngonaphakade.
Into ephambili, khumbula into ofuna ukuyifumana kunye noko ufuna ukuyifumana. Ngokucophelela ngokunokwenzeka, cinga ngomfanekiso. Emva koko ugqibe ukuba ngubani omnye onokwenza lo mfanekiso uqobo?