Nsuku zonke sijamelene neengxaki esizenzayo. Kodwa iiyunithi ziza kubakho ukuba akufuneki sijonge indlela yokuphuma kwimeko yangoku, kodwa siphume ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kwaye kwimeko enjalo, akuyena wonke umntu oza kuzama ukuthatha amanyathelo okukhonkxa. Leyo ingqondo yengqondo yomntu, kuba i-subconscious iyasikhusela ngokusisigxina nasiphi na utshintsho. Siyabesaba nje! Kodwa unokutshintsha ubomi bakho ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na? Masiqale ngezinto ezincinci. Zingaphi na izihlandlo ozicwangcise ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngehlobo? Yintoni umzamo wokuyeka ukutshaya? NgoMvulo wonyaka uza kuba njani xa uqala ukuhamba ekuseni? Kwaye, ngokudabukisayo, kule "ngxaki" yonke into iphela. Yaye yonke into ngenxa yokuba iminqweno ayixhaswa yizenzo.
Injongo ifumaneka!
Kunjalo! Naluphina umnqweno wakho uza kujika ube ngumgomo, ukuba uqale ukwenza. Yaye ukuba ungenzi ngokungaqhelekanga, kodwa ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo zesayensi, echazwe kwincwadi ethi "Phumla!", Ngoko ke injongo iya kuba yinjongo efikelelekayo. Konke okufunekayo kuwe kukulandela ngokulandelelana imiyalelo enikwe kwincwadi. Ukuba ufunde imigaqo-siseko yokuphumelela naluphi na umzamo, uyaqonda ukuba igama elithi "ufuna ukutshintsha ihlabathi - qalisa ngokwakho" alikho ibinzana elihle. Wonke umntu unokunqoba ulobu, ulahle imikhwa emibi kwaye athole izakhono ezifanelekileyo, eziza kuphucula umgangatho wobomi. Kwaye ezi zizithembiso ezingenanto!
Ukucacisa inkqubo yabo, ababhali beencwadi bafika ngokufanelekileyo. Akukho jerks! Into yokuqala efuna ukuba yenziwe ukuze inkqubo ivelise iziphumo kukukhuthaza umfundi. Kwingxenye yokuqala yencwadi, abalobi bebuntsomi abadumiweyo, okuyi-99% yamatyala aya kulahlwa. Kwaye bawenza ngendlela efikelelekayo yokuba zonke iintandabuzo ziyabonakala, kwaye i-motivation iyakugxotha ukuze yonke iseli yomzimba inqwenela utshintsho. Kwaye ezo zinguqu zisoyika, kodwa ziqinisekisa! Ukholo kwimpumelelo isiqinisekiso sokuba yonke into iya kuvela.
Inxalenye yesibini yale ncwadi ibonisa iinkalo eziphathekayo. Ababhali baqinisekisa ukuba kukho amanyathelo amahlanu kuphela ekutshintsheni okulungileyo: Ukucamngca, Ukulungiselela, Umzamo, Ukubambisana kunye nokuLondolozwa. Ukwenza isinyathelo ngeyinyathelo, ukuxhomekeka kwiimigaqo kunye neengcebiso, uya kuguqula umkhwa osebenzayo ngendlela yokuphila. Kwaye ukuze bahlalutye iinjongo zabo kunye neqondo lokukulungele ukutshintsha, le ncwadi inikeza iimvavanyo.
Abaninzi bethu banokuqhayisa ngokukwazi ukubeka iinjongo ezicacileyo. Incwadi iya kukufundisa oku kwaye iya kunceda ukuphepha ukuhluleka. Kwaye nangona iinzame zokuqala zibonakalisa ukungaphumeleli (kwaye kunzima ukuzikhusela), uya kufunda indlela yokulawula ukungaphumeleli, ukunciphisa, nokuziphepha ngokupheleleyo.
Inzuzo engathandabuzekiyo yolu buchule yinkcitho yexesha. Apha awuyi kufumana amabinzana angacacileyo "ngelinye ilanga", "emva kwesikhashana" njalo njalo. isiphumo siya kwamkelwa. Yonke into icacile - iintsuku ezingama-90 kuphela, kunye nenjongo ifumaneka! Ubungqina bokuba bubungqina bamashumi amawaka anenhlanhla ababeka ingozi kwaye batshintsha ubomi babo ngokubhetele ngokusebenzisa inkqubo kaDkt. John Norcross abazinikezele iminyaka emashumi amathathu ukuba baphando ngemikhwa yabantu.
Abaphulaphuli Abajoliswe
Incwadi ethi "Gcoba!" Kujoliswe kulabo bakhathele ukuba babe neendlela ezingathandabuzekiyo zengqondo, ezinokuthi zinikwe umphumo, zihlala zifutshane. Kuya kuba luncedo kubantu abalahlekelwe ukholo ngokwamakhono abo. Wonke umntu uya kufumana oko kanye abakucingayo, kuba umntu ofanelekileyo uyinto emnandi, kodwa iimpembelelo zokufezekisa ziyabonakala.