Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje kunye nesingqimba sobomi kunye nobunzima bezoqoqosho, abafazi abaninzi banokuzama ukulingana namadoda ngokupheleleyo into. Kule nkalo, iimpawu zentsapho maxa wambi ziya kwimvelaphi. Le ndlela ingaba esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo zokubonakaliswa kweengcamango zokulingana. Emva koko umbuzo uvela - yintoni isondo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ngesondo?
Ulwabelana ngesondo luyinto ebonisa ukucalulwa kwabantu ngenxa yesini. Abantu abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba ngubani wesini. Lo ngumntu onomsekeli weengcamango zesondo. La magama angabhekisela kuyo nayiphi na isini, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuboniswa ngocalulo lwabafazi . Nangona idemokhrasi eyaziwayo, le ngcamango iyasasazeka kwizoqoqosho kunye nezopolitiko, imfundo, amayeza, ekuxazululeni imibandela yenkolo, emsebenzini welo luntu lentsapho njengentsapho.
Iimpawu zesini
Le ngcamango inxulumene ngokubhekiselele kubomi bentlalo, esetyenziswa kwiindawo ezininzi zomsebenzi. Njengomthetho, ubulili besilisa bunobuncwane obuphathekayo, amandla ezopolitiko, isimo sezenhlalakahle. Indoda ithathwa njengentloko yentsapho, ngelixa umfazi enikwa indima yowesifazane kunye nomnakekeli womntwana. Ngokomlando kwenzeka, mhlawumbi kukho ingcamango kule nto, kodwa kukho imizekelo apho isondo esilungileyo singabhenela ibhankini kwisimo esinamandla, ukuqhuba ishishini kunye nokuziqhenya kwimpumelelo yezemidlalo.
Kukho ezinye iimpawu zokubonakalisa ubulili, ngezinye izihlandlo ezingabonakaliyo, umzekelo:
- Ukuxoxa ngezihloko ezifana nomtshato, intsapho, ubomi bomntu;
- ezingafanelekanga, ngamanye amaxesha kunye namahlaya angaphezulu;
- ukungena ekulawuleni ityala, kunye nokujongana nemiba yezopolitiko nezoqoqosho;
- ikhowudi yokugqoka;
- ukucinezelwa kwamalungelo kwindawo yokusebenzela;
- umqobo wokukhula komsebenzi;
- ukunyanzelwa kwemvuzo.
Izizathu zesini
Njengomthetho, imithombo yobundlobongela ibekwa kwintlalo yoluntu, imigaqo yayo kunye nezithethe. Uluntu lisetyenziswe kwinto yokuba abafazi:
- ukuhlala kwizithuba eziphantsi kunye nomvuzo omncinci;
- ixesha elide lizinikele kwintsapho kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana ;
- ukuqhuba ikhaya;
- ixesha elincinci lizinikele kwiingxaki zezopolitiko;
- zizinzile ngokwengqondo.
Iingcamango ezicatshangelwayo zingabangela izizathu zokuchaswa ngokwesini, nangona kukho imizekelo emininzi apho abafazi beentlobo ezininzi bahamba ngamadoda kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo yobomi okanye bahamba kunye nesondo esomeleleyo, bengabonakali kubo kwimicimbi yasekhaya, yabasebenzi, yezopolitiko, yomthetho kunye nezoqoqosho.
Iintlobo zesini
Ngokuqhelekileyo izazi zengqondo zihlula ezimbini iindlela ezifana nale ndlela:
- Evulekile kwaye enenzondelelo, xa abameli bendoda naliphi na ithuba bazama ukuhlazisa umfazi esidlangalaleni.
- Abaxhamli - amadoda aphatha amantombazana ngokuthe tye, kodwa ngokufanayo abajonga ukuba abancedi kwaye abanokukhuseleka.
Ubulili besilisa buyakwazi ukuzibonakalisa ngokuhlukileyo kwintsebenziswano ngesini esahlukileyo, umzekelo:
- Ukholo.
- Ukucoca okanye ukuhlambalaza.
- Ukwehla kwesithunzi kunye namathuba okuphuhlisa.
- Ukunyanzelisa.
Ukukhethwa kwalolu hlobo okanye le ndlela, ngokusisiseko, kuxhomekeke kwimiba yomsebenzi, ubudlelwane beqabane kunye nomnye, izicwangciso ezongezelelweyo, uluvo loluntu, imithetho yezenhlalakahle okanye iinkcubeko zonqulo nezentsapho . Phakathi kweendidi eziqhelekileyo zesini, oku kulandelwa ngamanye amaxesha:
- emsebenzini;
- kwintsapho;
- kwinkqubo yokufunda;
- kwiqela labahlobo.
Ubulili noBesifazane
Ubufazi buyingcamango yokulingana kwamalungelo phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ezi zipolitiko, ezoqoqosho, imfundo kunye nempilo. Ngokuqhelekileyo eli gama lifaniswa nombono wesini wesini, ongeyinyani ngokupheleleyo. Ubundlobongela ngcamango yokulingana ngokwesini, kunye nobulili kubasetyhini bubonakaliso lobandlululo ngokwesini.
Ageism kunye noSondo
Njengomthetho, ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kuyinto eqhelekileyo, inokusetyenziswa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zoluntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezinye iimbonakalo zayo zifaniswa nobudala-ukuphulwa kwamalungelo abantu asebekhulile, kodwa ukuba ingqiqo yokuqala ibanzi kakhulu, ibhekisela kubameli banoma yimaphi amaqela, ngoko kwimeko elandelayo sithetha ukudala. Ithenda yesibini ibhekiselele kuphela ukucalulwa kwabantu abaneminyaka ehloniphekileyo, kodwa nesimo sengqondo esingabahloneliyo. Ngako oko, sinokuthi ukudala iminyaka yobudala kuya kuba yinto ebonakaliswa ngayo ngokwesondo.
Indlela yokujongana ngesondo?
Amalungu amaninzi oluntu achasene ngesondo. Oku kunokwenzeka, kuba abantu bahlala kwintando yesininzi, banelungelo lokuthetha nokuvota, kwaye ubulili akufanele kube yinto ephambili ekuxazululeni nayiphi na imiba. Umntu wesondo oqhelekileyo uya kuvikela imbono yakhe - indoda evela kumaxesha amandulo yayiyi-earner, inamandla kwaye ingaphantsi kwengqondo. Indawo eyahlukileyo ihlala kwiinkcubeko zonqulo nezenkcubeko, ukuhlonela okungaphikisana nemilinganiselo yehlabathi. Ekulweni nokulwa ngokwesondo, ezi ndlela zilandelayo zisetyenziswa:
- amazwi;
- iingxoxo;
- ngenxa yendawo yokusebenza, idibano ngezinye izihlandlo ibanjelwa;
- Ukufuna uncedo kwimibutho yoluntu ejongene nemicimbi enjalo;
- uncedo lwezengqondo;
- ukukhangwa kweendaba kunye neenkundla.
Ukuba kukho nayiphi na imiqondiso yesini, ngamanye amaxesha kukho amazwi aneleyo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko kukho ityala elifunekayo. Iingcamango zokucalucalulo ezisekelwe kwisini akuyona indaba yeli xesha. Yiyiphi into yesondo, eyaziwayo ukususela kwiminyaka ye-20 leminyaka, kodwa akukho nto icacileyo ngolu hlobo. Wonke umntu uya kukhusela umbono wakhe. Mhlawumbi kufuneka ufumane umgangatho ophakathi, kuba kukho indawo apho indoda nomfazi bangakwazi ukufezekisa impumelelo efanayo, kodwa kukho izinto enye zesini esenza ngcono.