Umntu ngamnye ubhalwe kwinkqubo engqongqo yeli hlabathi, ukuguqula nokuguqula. Yaye impendulo yangaphandle kwimpembelelo yangaphandle iba nemizwa, eyenza ukuba izenzo zenzeke. Bahlukeneyo, ngoko ukufunda ihlabathi lomzwelo lomntu yenye yezona zihloko ezinomdla kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba unomdla kulo mbandela womntu othile, unokuzifumanisa malunga nazo zonke izizathu zezenzo zakhe, kwaye uqikelele izenzo.
Umhlaba womntu womzwelo
Bonke abantu bahluke: umntu uthinteka kwiinyembezi phambi kwento enomkhuhlane, kwaye umntu ongenamigudu ebonakalayo ebambe isitye samatye, ekhangelelwa kwiinkcukacha zamagazi ukusuka kwimeko yolwaphulo-mthetho. Oku akuthethi ukuba umntu omnye ulungile kwaye enye imbi. Zineempawu ezahlukeneyo, iimeko kunye neendlela zokubona ihlabathi elibajikelezile. Yaye nganye yeendlela zokuziphatha inezinzuzo kunye nezibi.
Iinkonzo kunye neengxaki zomntu ovakalelwa
Uphuhliso lweemvakalelo zengqondo luvulela umntu inani elithile elifanelekileyo:
- okubonakalayo kunye nokucebile;
- Fleur of attraction by response open;
- umthombo wokuphefumlelwa kokudala ;
- umnqweno wokuvula ixesha elitsha, ukubonelela ngeentlobo ezimnandi;
- ubunzima bokukhathazeka ngokomzwelo, kuba umntu emva kwesiganeko esheshayo ufika ekuphumuleni.
Ukuphazamiseka kukuphendula ngokucacileyo kuzo zonke iziganeko, ngamanye amaxesha nokuba zigqithiseleyo, ngezinye iimeko ziba ngumqobo.
Iinkonzo kunye neengxaki zomntu ogcinwe
Umntu ojwayele ukugcina iimvakalelo zakhe, kwakhona, kukho izihlandlo zokuvuya:
- unokuqiqa ngokufanelekileyo kwiimeko ezinzima;
- Ubomi bakhe abukwahluleki ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokuphazamiseka, ukhetho lunikezelwa ukuzinza.
Ukunciphisa ukungakwazi ukuphelisa iimvakalelo zabo okanye ukuzithumela kwesinye ishaneli. Ngako oko, umntu onjalo unokufumana uxinzelelo lwengqondo olubangelwa ukuqokelela rhoqo kunye nokudlala kwamava. Kwaye oku kubangela ukutshatyalaliswa nokuxinezeleka, okukuphela kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukulungisa.
Ukuphendula ngeemeko kwiimeko ezimbi
Ukuba sithetha ngempembelelo yomntu womntu kwiimeko ezinzima, akunakwenzeka ukuqikelela ukuba luhlobo luni oluya kuphumelela ngakumbi ekuqiniseni imeko.
Ngokomphando, kuphela ama-25% kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu akwazi ukwenza ngokuhambelana nale meko.
Ukuxinezeleka kunamava, kodwa:
- Ama-20% akwazi ukuzityhalela ngokukhawuleza;
- I-70% ifunyenwe iiyure eziliqela okanye iintsuku;
- I-10% yafika ngokuqhelekileyo kuphela emva kokuncedwa kwezonyango.
Kodwa ngokumalunga nokuziphatha kwabantu abaneendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphendulela ngokomzwelo, azikho iziphumo ezithembekileyo. Ngoko ke, uvavanyo kufuneka lwenziwe ngabanye, iinzame zokugqiba iziphumo zingakhokelela kwizigqibo ezingalunganga.