Ngombono "weengxaki zeminyaka ephakathi" sonke siqhelana neencwadi kunye namafilimu, nangona isetyenziswa rhoqo kumadoda. Kodwa iingxaki ezinxulumene neminyaka nazo zenzeka kubasetyhini, kwada kwada kwangokunje le ngxaki yayingekho nzima. Kwaye kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, oomama kufuneka balwe nendawo elangeni ngokuxhatshazwa ngesondo esinamandla, ngoko ke uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, ukuphazamiseka nezinye iingxaki.
Iimbangela zeengxaki ezingama-25 iminyaka yabasetyhini
Ekubonweni kokuqala, kunokubonakala ngathi inkathazo ye-25 iminyaka kubhinqa iyona nto ibonakaliswe kakhulu, kule minyaka ingaba ziphi iingxaki? Enyanisweni, eli xesha liguquka kwimeko yentombazana nganye. Xa uneminyaka engama-25, uqeqesho kufuneka luzaliswe, umsebenzi ogqithisiweyo okanye ongaphantsi othotyelwe, kwaye ubomi bobuqu buququzelelwe. Kwimeko nayiphi na, yile ndlela umbono wehlabathi usiqinisekisa ngayo. Kodwa ngokwenene lo mbono awukwazi ukufezwa ngumntu wonke, umntu ukubheja kwi-career, ukulibala malunga nemvelo yokudala intsapho. Abanye kwiminyaka yokugqibela yesikhungo bayashada, bahlala kulo nyaka benamava aphezulu okubeleka, kodwa banako ukugqiba ngokupheleleyo kwezakhono zobungcali kunye nolwazi olulibala. Oko kukuthi, imbangela yobuhlungu obuhlobene nobudala kubasetyhini kukungabikho kwanoma yimuphi umbandela wobomi kunye nokungazi apho uhamba khona.
Ukuxazulula inkathazo yenkangala kubafazi
Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu kufuneka asebenzise uncedo lweengcali, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi kukho ithuba lokuziqonda imeko. Zama ukwakha indawo ekhululekile ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwaye ucinge ngezinto onganike ngazo.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba kwi-career yakho ungayibeka umnqamlezo ngenxa yobuncinane bomntwana? Cinga ukuba impumelelo kwimiba yobugcisa ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, okanye kufuneka uqaphele nje njengomama, uchithe ixesha lokukhululeka kwimisebenzi yentshontshi, leyo, nangona umgangatho ophezulu, nokuba neyona ntlawulo encinci inokuzisa. Ukuba uhlala ekhaya kwaye ufunde ubugcisa bokugcina indlu awufuni ngokwenene, cinga ngezinto ofuna ukuzenza. Uze uphendule lo mbuzo, ungagxilwanga kwimfundo okanye kwimeko yangaphambili yomsebenzi, ungesabi ukutshintsha ngokubanzi ubungakanani bomsebenzi. Ukuzama amatsha akusayi kukhawuleza, kwaye xa uneminyaka yakho ngaphezulu.
Omnye umba obangela ukuba abafazi abaneminyaka engama-50 ubudala bangathandabuzeki ngobomi babo. Impumelelo yomsebenzi
Ngokuqhelekileyo ubunzima beminyaka engama-25 kubafazi basombululwa phantsi kwefuthe lokusingqongileyo, okusoloko kunika ithuba lokukhetha. Ngenxa yoko, emva kwexesha iimeko zeengxaki zibuyela, ziqhubeka zide ide intombazana engayiqondi into ayifunayo ebomini.