Ukwahlula kweengxabano

Nsuku zonke kukho iingxabano kuluntu. Ezi zilandelayo zihlukeneyo kummandla wazo, kwaye oku kuchaphazela ubomi bobabini amaqela aphikisanayo kunye neendawo ezikuyo.

Kodwa iingxabano azange zenze iinguqu ezintle, kuba ngaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi kukho isayensi ye-conflictology. Nguye ohlola isitshixo, ukuhlelwa kweengxabano kwaye, ngokungangabazeki, iindlela zokusombulula isisombululo.

Ukwahlula kweengxabano

Cinga ngeentlobo eziphambili:

1. Ulwaphulo lwangempela luvela ngexesha langempela kunye neengqiqo, ngaphandle kokunyanzeliswa, lubonwa ngamacandelo (umzekelo, umfazi ufuna ukusebenzisa igumbi elikhululekile kwigumbi lokusebenzela imfesholo, kwaye umyeni wakhe ufuna ukuvula i-ofisi yangasese kweli gumbi, isibini sithatha isimo sengxabano ngokwenene).
2. U mqondiso. Iimeko ezikulo mbambano zilula kakhulu ukutshintsha. Kodwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, abachasayo abaziboni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuqonda oku (ukungavumelani okuye kwavela phakathi kwabatshatileyo kuya kuba ngumqondiso xa isi sibini singaboni ukuba kunokwenzeka ukukrazula ingxaki ngokuthatha elinye igumbi).
3. Shifted. Isiseko salo singaba yimpikiswano engafihliweyo. Ukungaqondakali kokuvela phakathi kwabatshatileyo kuya kuba yintlukwano eguqukayo xa kwenzeka ukuba afuneki ukuguqula igumbi kwiofisi yangasese, kwaye ekubambisaneni kukho kubonakala ezinye, ingxaki enkulu, ngamanye amaxesha kunye nokungqubuzana nokungaziqondi (icala lenye yeqabane, uzama "ukucasula" enye ngezenzo zakhe).
4. Ukutsho ngokungalunganga. Kuvela ngenxa yeengxaki ezichazwe ngephutha (umntwana uhlaselwa yinto ayenzayo, ngokulandela imiyalelo yabazali bakhe).
5. ILatent. Ukungavumelani okwenzekayo, kodwa akuzange kwenzeke, kuba ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, akuzange kuqondwe ngamaqela.
6. Buxoki. Izizathu zokungaqondi kakuhle zikhoyo. Iimeko zengxabano zikhona ngenxa yokuqonda okungalunganga.

Impikiswano yoluntu kunye nokuhlelwa kwazo

1. Ulwaphulo ngabanye luvela kwinqanaba lomntu ngamnye, xa kukho uxhomekeke ngokugqithiseleyo okanye uxinzelelo.
2. Ukungavumelani kwabangaphandle kubangelwa ukusebenzisana kwabantu ngabanye kumaqela ahlukeneyo asekuhlaleni, iimfuno zentlalo , iinjongo ezingahambelaniyo.
3. Ingxabano phakathi kwamaqela. Abameli ngabanye bala maqela bathatha inxaxheba kwimpikiswano kuphela ngenxa yokuba bangabanye iqela.

Ukungquzulana kwamanye amazwe kunye nokuhlelwa kwazo

1. Kwimiba yobomi: intsapho, impahla, ishishini kunye nabanye.
2. Kwiimpembelelo zokusebenza kunye nomphumo: okwakhayo kwaye owonakalisayo.
3. Ngokwemilinganiselo ye nyaniso kunye nenyaniso: eyiyo, ikhethiweyo, inkohliso, ichanekileyo, ithathelwe ingcamango, ilandelwe.

Ulwahlulo lweengxabano zentsapho

1. Iimeko ezininzi zengxabano zivame ukuvela kwintsapho kwaye zihlule iintlobo zazo ezilandelayo.
2. Iingxabano zesicwangciso se-conjugal sinokuvela ngenxa yokungahambelani kwimeko yobungqingili, ukungabikho kwemvakalelo emihle (ukungabi nothando, ukuncoma kumlingane), ukwaneliseka okwaneleyo iimfuno zakho (ukuzithengisa izinto eziphathekayo, iziyobisi, utywala, njl.
3. Ukuxabana phakathi kwabantwana nabazali kubonakala ngenxa yeendleko zokukhuliswa kwabantwana, ubunzima bexesha eluntwini.
4. Isizathu sokungquzulana kwezalamane kukungenelela kwabo.
5. Ulwaphulo olunobunzima bexesha lwenzeka xa kukho umzabalazo wobunkokeli, xa omnye wamalungu entsapho engabonakali ukubaluleka kwintsapho.