Ulwaphulo lomdla

Nsuku zonke siyaqhagamshelana nabantu abaninzi. Omnye usondele kuthi kwaye sinovuyo ekukhulumeni nabo, kunye nomntu ekufuneka baxoxe kunye neemeko (umsebenzi, ukufundisisa, ukufumana iinkonzo, njl.). Kodwa nangona kukho ukunganyaniseki okanye ukuvelana, zonke iintlobo zengxabano zivela phakathi kwethu, akunakupheka. Ukungqubuzana kweminqweno yenye yezona zizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuxabana, kwanabantu abasondeleyo, nangona kunjalo, ngokubanzi, baphatha kakuhle kwaye bathandane.

Imizekelo yeengxabano zomdla kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla inokufunyanwa kwinqanaba ngalinye: abantwana abanakubelana ngesitokethi kwi-kindergarten; enye ithelevishini kwintsapho - umfazi ufuna ukubukela umboniso, kunye nomyeni ibhola lebhola; Amadoda amabini azama ukunqoba intliziyo yentombazana enye; esinye isihlalo samahhala kwizothutho, apho bonke abo bangenele basebenza, njl.

Ukungqubuzana komdla kunye neefom zayo

Ngamnye wethu unendawo yakhe yomdla kunye nokuba sinokusebenza kangakanani ebomini kunempahla yokwandisa. Kwaye xa kwenzeka ukuba omnye umntu asebenze phantsi kwaye akwandise imimandla yakhe, ke kunokwenzeka ukuba imimandla yakho ingawela ngaphesheya. Ngoko kukho ukungquzulana. Kwiengqondo zengqondo, umbono wokungqubuzana komdla kunye nolwimi lwesiLatini uguqulelwe njengendlela yokudibanisa kwaye uthetha enye yeentlobo zeemeko xa amabini amabini okanye ngaphezulu efuna into enye inomdla.

Ukuba sithetha ngeempawu zokungqubana komdla, ngoko ke:

1. Ubukho bezinto kunye neemeko, apho ngamnye kwizinto ezizithandayo azibona, njengengxabano.
2. Ukungabonakali kwezinto eziphikisanayo okanye into, oko kukuthi, ayikwazi ukwahlukana, ingahamba kuphela kumntu omnye.
3. Umnqweno wamacandelo ukuba aqhube phambili kwimeko yemfazwe yangoku kunye nokungafuni ukuthobela.

Ngaloo ndlela, ukugqithiseleka kweengxabano zentlalo kukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba banomdla kuyo kwaye wonke umntu ucinga ngeenjongo zabo. Oku kusongela ukuba xa ukucinga kwesicwangciso senkqubo kunye nokucwangciswa kwabo kuya kutshintshwa kwizenzo ngokwabo, ngoko imeko eyingozi iya kuqala-ngokuthe ngqo ingquzulwano ngokwayo, oko kukuthi, ukuchasana kwemfuno yabathathi-nxaxheba.

Ukungqubana kweminqweno yesigqibo

Ukuze ugweme oku, iindlela ezinhlanu eziphambili zokusombulula iingxabano zeemfuno zibonakala:

1. Okokuqala, ukhuphiswano, olubonakaliswa ngumnqweno womntu ngamnye ukufezekisa umdla wakhe, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni kwingozi yomnye umntu.
2. Okwesibini, ukulungelelanisa, oko kukuthi, ukuzincama kweenjongo zabo ngenxa yemfuno yomnye umntu.
3. Okwesithathu, ukufumana ingcamango-oko kukuthi, isivumelwano esisekelwe kwimvume evela kumacala amabini. Olu hlobo lokulungiswa kwemibutho yezinto ezinokubambisana lunokubonakaliswa ngokubonelela iinketho ezisusa ukuphikisana okuye kwavela.
4. Ngaphezu koko, ukufumana ingxaki yokuxazulula ingxabano kunokuthi kubangelwe ukuphepha, xa bobabini bengenalo umnqweno wokudibanisa, kwaye ngelo xesha akukho mnye wokuba ufezekise iinjongo zabo.
5. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, intsebenziswano, kwenzekayo xa abathathi-nxaxheba kwimeko befumene enye into ekwazi ukwanelisa ngokupheleleyo iminqweno yamalungu onke.

Yintoni eya kufezeka ekuziqheleni ubugcisa bokuthintela ukungquzulana komdla, umzekelo, kwintsapho yakho, emsebenzini, njl. Kubalulekile ukuba banomdla kwiintsapho zabo, oogxa babo, iimfuno zabo kunye nezimvo zabo. Kule meko, kungekhona nje ukuba unomdla kwiimpawu ezintle, kodwa ubeke ingqwalasela kubuthathaka, kuya kukunceda ukuba uqhagamshelane nabo. Ufuna kwakhona ukuphulaphula nokuva abanye, iimpawu ezinje zixabisekileyo kunokuba zikwazi ukuthetha. Akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukulandela ukugxekwa kwakho, emva koko, yonke into iyaziwa ukuba ilungele ukumodareyitha, kungcono xa ukugxekwa kungabonakali, kwaye kuyigqubuthelo, ukuze kungabi yinto engalunganga, kodwa kubangelwa ukuphucula. Nceda uqaphele imiyalelo, uqonde kwaye uyamkele iimpazamo zakho, kunye nezinye iimpazamo zabantu, mncama kakhulu kwaye sihlale kunye!