Kungekudala, indlela efanelekileyo yobomi kunye neenzuzo zayo zithethwa ngokuqhelekileyo. Kwimiqathango yeziphakamiso ezinjalo, amagama athi "imiphumo enempilo nemiphumo embi" idla ngokukhawuleza, ekho ngenxa yesizathu esithile ayiqhelekanga. Ngoko makhe sibone ukuba yintoni, kwaye kutheni abanye befuna ukunyuswa, ngelixa abanye bengakuzimeli ukuphelisa.
Impilo nemikhwa emibi
Xa uthetha ngemikhwa emibi, ngokuqhelekileyo kuthetha ukusetyenziswa kotywala, iziyobisi okanye iteksi, kodwa le ngcaciso ayilunganga ngokupheleleyo. Inyaniso kukuba nayiphi na umkhuba ovimbela umntu kwinkqubo yokuziqonda kuya kuba yingozi. Kwaye makhe sicinge ukuba ingaba ngumqobo omkhulu kule nto. Ukungabikho kwezinto eziphathekayo, ukunxibelelana okuyimfuneko okanye iingxaki zempilo. Kodwa iiparamitha ezimbini zokuqala azixhomekeke kuthi ekuqaleni, kodwa sivusa izifo ezininzi ngokwabo, sinyanzelise imigaqo yokuziphatha yokuqala. Ngako oko, iziganeko ezikhankanywe ngentla ziyimikhwa emibi, kodwa eso sifo singabangela ukuba sisondlo esingasondli kunye nokuphila ngendlela yokuhlala, kunye nokungafuni ukugcina umlinganiselo phakathi komsebenzi nokuphumla. Oko kukuthi, nayiphi na into engayi kuthiwa yimikhwa yomntu onempilo iya kutshatyalaliswa ngokuzenzekelayo kwinqanaba lemilutha eyingozi.
Ngokusekelwe kulo mbandela, kuya kuba nengqiqo ukucinga ukuba umkhwa wempilweni yindlela yokuthatha isenzo esinokukunceda ukufezekisa iinjongo zobomi behlabathi okanye ubuncinane ukukhusela ukuphuhliswa kakubi kweemeko. Okokuthi, umkhuba onempilo uya kuba yintlobo enkulu yemifuno neziqhamo, kunye nokukhanyela ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukodwa kokutya okukhawulezayo. Kwakhona umzekelo wesimilo esinempilo uhamba ngokuhamba rhoqo kunye nebhayisikili, iklasi yokufaneleka okanye umdlalo wolunye uhlobo lwezemidlalo. Enyanisweni, iphuzu lokugqibela liya kuba lifanelekileyo, kuphela ukuba ngumbuzo woqeshiso lomsebenzi, kufuneka uvumelane, imidlalo yezemfundo kunye nezempilo ayifani ngokufanayo.
Impilo kunye nezakhono
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abazama ukujongwa kwimiba engxaki yokutya okunomsoco, bahlala bethelelwa kwindlela endala yobomi, nangona kubangele ukuba bangabonakali. Khumbula ibinzana elithi: "Makhe ndigule kusasa, kodwa namhlanje ndiya kuyidla"? Ngoko, le yinto efanayo. Kwakungekho malunga nokungaqondi kakuhle impembelelo yokungondleki komzimba, ingxaki ingumkhwa owenziwe, obunzima kakhulu ukunqoba. Ukuze uqonde kakuhle oku, kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwemikhwa enempilo kunye nemikhuba yokutya enempilo. Ikhono libizwa ngokuba yinto eyenza ngokuzenzekelayo, eyenziwa ngokuphindaphinda ixesha elide. Iimpawu zenziwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwezenzo ezithile, izakhono zabo zikwahluke ngokubakho kwimeko. Ukongeza, izakhono
Ngoko ke, khuthaza ukuba uhlanganyele kwimfundo yemikhwa ephilileyo ukusuka ebuntwaneni, ubuncinci malunga nokutya. Khumbula ukuba imikhuba ihlala isenza into yokuxelisa, ngoko kufuneka ifundiswe kuphela ngumzekelo wayo. Umntwana uya kuhlala ekhetha umzekelo wokuziphatha oboniswa ngabazali.