Abaninzi abasetyhini kwimeko bazama ukuhambelana nazo zonke iinkolelo, kwaye ezinye zijika zibe luhlobo lwe-mania. Kukho umama ozayo ongeyunqamle, ungahambi ukunqumla iinwele kwaye ungaboni namakati.
Enye yezona zibonakaliso eziqhelekileyo zichaza ukuba ngaba abafazi abakhulelweyo bangabuka kumntu ofileyo. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu babekholelwa ukuba abafazi kuloo meko bahlala kwiindawo ezingakhuselekanga kunye nayiphi na into engeyiyo, kwaye ukudibanisa nehlabathi elifileyo kungalimaza imeko yabo yempilo kwaye kuthintele imeko yomntwana.
Kutheni abafazi abakhulelweyo bengabhekanga kumfi kwaye bahambe baye emangcwabeni?
Oogogo nomkhulu bakholelwa ukuba xa umfazi okhulelweyo efika emngcwabeni, umntwana ophakathi kwakhe uvakalelwa yimeko enzima kwaye uva ukukhala kwabantu. Ngamaxesha amandulo abantu babekholelwa ukuba xa umama ozayo ekhangele umfi, ke kukho umngcipheko omkhulu wokuba umntwana azalwe efile. Olunye uloyiko, obangela ukubonakala komqondiso, kuba kutheni abafazi abakhulelweyo bengaboni abafileyo, kubonisa ukuba emangcwabeni kumntwana ongakazalwa unokunamathela umphefumlo womfi, kwaye oku kunokutshintsha i-future or even leading to death. Oogqirha bayavuma ukuba abafazi abasemgangathweni akufanele bajonge umntu oshonile baze babe khona emngcwabeni, kuba ingcinezelo engadingekile ayifanelekanga. Enye ingxabano ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukubheka emangcwabeni kwaye uye emangcwabeni kukuba kwindawo ehlobene nokufa nakwezinye ihlabathi, uninzi lwamandla amaninzi aqokelelwa kwaye aqikelelwe
Ukuqonda isihloko kunokuthi akufanele ukuba ukhulelwe ukujonga umntu oshonile, kukufanelekile ukukhankanya umbono wecawa kule ngxaki. Ababingeleli bathi akukho migaqo yokuvalwa kwento, kwaye wonke umntu unelungelo lokugqiba ukuba ngaba uye emangcwabeni okanye cha. Oomama abaninzi bexesha elizayo, ngokuchaseneyo, bathi emangcwabeni bazive benokunyanzelisa nokunyamekela kwezihlobo, kodwa abantu abafileyo.
Ubungqina obucacileyo bolu phawu alukho, kwaye konke kuxhomekeka kwimoya yengqondo yomama ozayo. Kuhlala kulungele ukukhumbula ukuba iingcamango ezingcolileyo kunye nokwesaba kuya kuba yinyani. Ukuba kukho ukwesaba kwinqanaba elincinane, ungayi kumngcwabo okanye kumangcwaba. Akukhuthazwa ukuba uye kwiintlobo ezinjalo kunye nabasetyhini abaneempembelelo. Unokuthi uhlehlise umntu obathandayo ngenye indlela - uye ecaweni uze ufake ikhandlela okanye ulandele inkonzo yomngcwabo.