Xa ebuzwa ukuba ngabaphi abahlobo ababaphuphayo, incwadi yephupha ayiniki impendulo engabonakaliyo. Ukuchaneka kokuchazwa kwephupha kuxhomekeke kwimimiselo emininzi ekhumbuzayo.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuba abahlobo abadala bephupha?
Bonwabileyo, bahlobo abadala abanomdla - amaphupha aphuphayo okufumana iindaba ezimnandi okanye intlanganiso nomntu ontle, ukudibanisa okuphazamisekile. Kodwa ukuba umhlobo ephupheni udabukile kwaye ulahlekile - umbono onjalo awuyi kuhamba kakuhle, umntu kufuneka alindele iingxaki, kubandakanywa nempilo.
Iingxabano nokungavumelani nabahlobo bamandulo kwisithembiso sokuphupha umphuphi ukukhashelwa ebomini bokwenene-kubahlobo ba namhlanje. Ukunyamekela kufuneka kuthathelwe ukujonga ngokusingqongileyo kwimeko engqongileyo.
Umthendeleko onobubele obonwa ngephupha unokuthi ukuhlanganiswa okufanayo. Kule meko, kucetyiswa ukugcina imali kwi-cash and take weekend off on work.
Ukudibana kwiphupha kunye nomhlobo omdala, unxibelelwano olupheliswa ngenxa yokuxabana, uthembisa ukulahlekelwa kwezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokungcatsha. Ukuba umhlobo ephupheni ufuna ukuzibulala, kukho ukuphazamiseka kwimeko yobomi bephupha.
Ukuba umhlobo omdala ephupheni ukhononda ngobunzima kunye neengxaki, mhlawumbi ngoku ufuna uncedo lomphuphi.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukuhlangana nabahlobo bamandulo?
Hlangana nephupha umhlobo omdala ogqoke iimpahla ezibalabala - kwiinkxalabo kunye nexhala, okukuthi, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuphelisa umphuphi ngokuphephile.
Ukuba umhlobo omdala uvela ephupheni ngesimo sesilwanyana, lowo obona le ingozi yokuphulukana nomntu omthandayo ngenxa yeentsiba zeentshaba okanye abanengxaki.
Intlanganiso ephupheni kunye nabahlobo abasweleko basweleko kuthetha ukungavumelani okukhulu ngokwenene ukuba kuvela ngenxa yokungakwazi komphuphi ukuxolela nokufumana ulwimi olufanayo nabanye abantu.
Ukumanga umhlobo omdala ephupheni kwintlanganiso kuthetha ukuthatha inxaxheba kwinyani. Kodwa oku akuyi kwenzeka ngenxa yokuxabana , kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezingaphezu kwephupha lomphuphi - mhlawumbi umhlobo uya kutshintsha indawo yakhe yokuhlala.