Yonke iphupha ishiya imvakalelo ethile emva kwayo. Iingcamango malunga nabantu abafileyo zidla ngokubangela ukuphazamiseka kunye nesimo sokwesaba . Ukuqinisekisa okanye ukuphikisa iimvakalelo zakho, kufuneka uchaze ngokuchanekileyo yonke into. Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukuhlalutya isakhelo kwangaphambili nazo zonke iinkcukacha kunye neemvakalelo. Ukucacisa amaphupha ngabantu abafayo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba wena kunye nawe wenze, njani ukhangele, njl.
Yintoni umntu ofayo ephupha njengokuphila?
Iphupha apho umama ofayo ephila khona isilumkiso malunga neengozi yangoku, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlale uqaphile. Ukubona umhlobo ophila ephupheni kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kuba nolwazi nomntu onomntu onokumakhela ubuhlobo obuqinileyo. Umbono wobusuku, apho ubaba oshonile ebonakala khona, uxhomekeka ebomini obuya kunceda ukufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo. Umtoliki wephupha, apho umntu osandul 'ufile ephupha ukuba uphile kwaye lo ngumhlobo osondeleyo, uguqulela njenge-harbinger yomhlangano obalulekileyo oya kubaluleka kwaye uthembise. Xa umntu ofileyo ebonakala ephupheni ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-40, ngumqondiso wokunyamekela nothando oluza kuvela kubantu abasondeleyo. Ukuba umntu ofileyo uyavuya ephupheni isilumkiso sokuba kukho abantu abangenangqiqo kwimimandla engaboniyo, banokungcatsha. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba kubekho ukugcinwa kunye nokunciphisa unxibelelwano kumncinci.
Umbono ebusuku, apho umntu ofileyo ucebisa ngayo, unokuba yinkcazelo ecacileyo indlela yokwenza kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ukuthetha nomntu oshonile ngumngqamaniso wenguqu kunye nabaqhelana nabo. Siya kuqonda oko kuthetha ukuba umntu oshonile amaphupha omntu ophilayo, onoyolo kwaye onempilo. Iphupha elinjalo yi-harbinger yenkohliso kunye nempembelelo engafanelekanga ngaphandle. Iphupha apho umntu ofileyo ecela into ethile, uprofeta ukukhungatheka kunye namava okhathazekile. Ukuba umama oshonile ubonakala ephupheni, kunokuthathwa njengesinconywa, ukuba umntu ahlalutye izenzo ezenzelwe ukulungisa iziphene eziye zavela. Umbono wasemhlabeni, apho ngokuzumayo utata wayephila, uqikelele ukuvela kweengxaki.
Siza kuqonda ukuba yintoni indoda endala efile ephila ngayo. Iphupha elinjalo libonisa iziganeko ezibalulekileyo zeentsapho. Iphupha, eliye lagcinwa zizihlobo ezininzi ezifileyo ngexesha elilodwa, li-harbinger yeentsapho zengxabano ngenxa yeengxaki kwizinto eziphathekayo. Ukuba umntu oshonile uphuma ebhokisini, kufuneka ulindele ukufika kweendwendwe. Uya kuqonda ukuba kutheni umntu ofileyo ephupha, njengomntu ophilayo, okhalayo. Kule meko, ubuthongo buyingqungquthela yokuxabana , okungavela kunye nomntu othandekayo kunye nomfokazi. Ukuba uphupha malunga nomntu ofile ovusiweyo owamkelayo - oku kukubonakalisa impilo enempilo.
Ukumanga nomntu ofileyo ngumngqongqo wokutshintsha ubomi, ezinokuthi zinezinto ezilungileyo nezimbi. Xa umntu ofileyo ephanga kathathu - oku kuyimfuneko yokuhlukana kwangaphambili
Yintoni umntu omthandayo ophuphayo ephupha ngokuphila?
Ngokuqhelekileyo isalathiso esinjalo sisiphumo sokulangazelela ilahleko lesibini. Ngomfazi, iphupha ngomntu othandekayo ngumntu obonakalisa ukuba uthembisa ukuhlangana nomlingane omtsha kwaye uya kunika ulonwabo olukhulu nothando.