Into enjengokubukela ithandwa kakhulu kwimihla ngemihla, iyasijikeleza yonke indawo, kwaye asiyi kuphinda sicinge ubomi bethu ngaphandle kwabo. Kukulungele, kusebenza kwaye kuyimfuneko. Kodwa ukuba banike umlindi, bathi, yinto embi. Masizame ukubona ukuba oku kunjalo ngokwenene.
Ukubaluleka komqondiso
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba izipho ezinikwayo zizithunywa zokuhlukana, ukwahlukana okanye ukuxabana okude, ngaphandle kokuxolelana kwakhona. Ukuba sicinga le ngcamango kumbono weli xesha, ukufumana umlindo njengesipho kuye kwanda kuba ngumqondiso ombi ngenxa yokuba asiyazi indlela yokuchaneka ngokucacileyo le ntsi ngiselo evela kuthi kwamanye amazwe.
Ngoko, eMpuma isipho eso sihlobo sememo yokungcwaba. KwiSlavs, le nkcazo yaxhomekeke ekuphazamiseni, kodwa isingqinisiso esibuqili kunye nenjongo yasendulo yaseMpuma isele: isipho eso sinciphisa ubomi bomntu abanikezelwa kuye.
Kodwa, bekuya kuba nomnqweno, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukungathandeki ukuchazwa akuyiyo uphawu ngokwalo, kunokunika izakhiwo ezintle. Ngokuqinisekileyo, makhe umzekelo olandelayo ungaze uphunyezwe, kodwa akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuyikhankanya. Ngokomzekelo, umlindo ubeka njengesipho kumntu osondele kakhulu kuwe kwaye ongekuthandayo ukumbona kwixesha elizayo okanye ixesha elide, kwaye mhlawumbi unomnqweno onqwenelekayo wokukhupha lo mntu ebomini bakho.
Kodwa nangabo abo abangacingi ngolu hlobo baboniswa uphawu olubi alukwazi ukuhlala luvakalelwa yimizwa emihle emehlweni esipho eso. Ngokwemigaqo yesetyenziso samhla, amawashi akufanele anikwe ukuvala abantu kunye nezihlobo, ingakumbi amadoda kunye namaqabane ebhizinisi. Esi sipho singathathwa njengokuba ungafuni ukuchitha ixesha kunye nalo mntu, okanye ngesenzo esinjalo uyazi ngokungazi ukuba uxolo ngemini yokuphila yomntu onjalo.
Uphawu "Ixesha liyekile"
Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kungumqondiso oqinisekileyo wokufa komnikazi we-watch. Kodwa akuyi kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuba uqaphele ukuba lo mqondiso awunasoloko ubaluleke kangaka. Ingaguqulelwa njengenguqu yekhadidi ebomini, ekhokelela ekutshintsheni kwisangqa esiqhelekileyo soqhagamshelwano, indawo kunye nokuqala kobomi obutsha.
Nangona kunjalo siphila kwihlabathi lezobuchwepheshe obuphezulu kunye noshishino oluphuhlisiwe, amazwi amandulo, iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba yini okufunekayo ukuyenza, kwaye apho kufuneka khona ukuba uyeke, siyaqhubeka sihlala nathi.
Iingcali ezininzi ezinokuziphendulela zithi xa umntu engakholelwa kuyo nayiphi na imiqondiso nangentsingiselo yakhe enzima, abayi kuba nako ukulimaza ubomi bakhe.