Mhlawumbi, ummeli wonkqonkqo obalaseleyo ebomini ebomini bakhe wabona iphupha apho umntu owayengumntu wokuqala wayecinga ngayo. Amaphupha anjalo emva kokuhlukana aqhelekileyo, kuba abonakalisa amava angaphakathi. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba iphupha livela emva kwexesha elide, xa sele sele ukhona ubuhlobo. Kule meko, siya kuzama ukuqonda.
Kutheni le nkwenkwe yangaphambili iphupha?
Amantombazana amaninzi ayaqiniseka ukuba isizathu sokuba umntu uthanda kwaye ahlale ecinga. Enyanisweni, esi sizathu esilungileyo, esiyi-amneses, kodwa kwenzeka njani oku? Okukuphela kokukhetha kukuba ubuchule bakhe bemilingo, obunzima. Ngokubanzi, amaphupha abonakalisa ukwesaba kwakho kunye neemvakalelo, ngoko ke isizathu sokuba umntu owayesakuba ngumfana ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha kukujonga.
Izizathu ezinokwenzeka:
- Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzekayo xa uhlukana, awukwazi ukubeka onke amanqaku angentla "kunye". Ubukho ebomini boqobo beengcamango mhlawumbi wenza iphutha okanye uhlala ukhangele umenzi wobubi benzekile. Kule meko, kucetyiswa ngokukhawuleza emva kokuvusa ukurekhoda iimvakalelo oye wazibona ngexesha lokulala. Umzekelo, ukuba uphupha umtshato womntu owayengumyeni kwaye uyonwabile ngaye, oku kuwuphawu lobuhlobo obudlulileyo obuvuyayo kwaye kwindawo ethile kwizinga elincinci lingathanda ukubuyisa yonke into. Ukuba uziva uhlambalaza, ngoko, kunokwenzeka ukuba, ebomini bobubwenene ubuhlungu kakhulu kumlingani wakho wangaphambili. Xa uqwalasela ngokucophelile iphupha, fumana isizathu kwaye uyilungise, ngoko amaphupha aya kutshabalala ngokwawo.
- Esinye isizathu sokuba umntu owayengumfana udla ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha kukuba nguye
ukubonakaliswa komntu othile ebomini bakho bokwenene. Oku kuya kuzaliswa ngento yokuba amaphupha omntu owayengumthandi akakwenzi nto. Kule meko, kucetyiswa ukuba uhlaziye ngokucophelela iphupha uze ubone ukuba ngubani okhangeleka, mhlawumbi lo ungumhlobo onokufanayo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo loo maphupha busuku zibonakalisa iingxaki ezikhoyo kwaye, ngokuzisombulula, uya kukhwela iintlanganiso zobusuku kunye nomnye owayengumlingani. - Ukuba unayo intlanganiso kunye ne-ex-boyfriend, mhlawumbi umqondiso ukuba awukhululekile kunye neqabane langoku. Wena kwinqanaba elincinci lithelekisa abafana, kwaye kwinto ethile yentshisekelo yangoku ilahlekelwa. Kule meko, esinye isisombululo kukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nomthandayo, umbonise ukunganeliseki nokuxazulula iingxaki ezikhoyo.