Uphawu "imvula ngosuku lomtshato" lithetha ukuba umtshato uya kuba nolonwabo, kwaye ukuqonda okupheleleyo kuya kunqoba kulutsha olutsha. Ngoko, ukuba imvula ngosuku lomtshato, uphawu luthembisa ikamva elihle kulo mbhangqwana. Kutheni le nkolelo yavela? Yaye yintoni enye iinguqulelo zalo mqondiso? Kwaye kufuneka ndixelele ukuba kukho ukuchazwa kakubi kwalo mcimbi ngomhla womtshato. Okulandelayo-ngeenkcukacha malunga nale nto.
Imiqondiso ephawulekayo ngemvula yomtshato
Ngamaxesha onke, imvula ibe yindawo ebalulekileyo ebomini babantu. Ixhomekeke kwinqanaba lezulu, ukuvunwa kuxhomekeke, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, nokuba kuya kuba nesonka kunye nokuchuma kwindlu yonke. Inkomfa yayibhekwa njengesiqalekiso, ehombisa indlala, izifo kunye nemfuyo. Ngako oko, abantu abaninzi ngamaxesha onke baqonda imvula kunye namanzi ngokubanzi njengobomi ngokwawo. Kutheni abanye abantu beyichaza lo mqondiso njengento engalunganga?
Abaninzi abafuna ukugula nabahlobo abanomona basebenzisa isibonakaliso sabantu ngenxa yeenjongo zabo, besithi ukuba umtshato ubanda, uphile ubomi bawo ngokulangazelela nangezinyembezi. Eyona nto ihlolwe kwiimeko ezinjalo, intombi intombi. Emva koko, kwimihla yakudala ukuhlala ngumfazi ongatshatanga wayebhekwa njengehlazo. Ngako oko, ithuba lokutshata labonwa njengempumelelo enkulu kunye nesizathu sokuba nomona. Kwaye ukuba xa umyeni ekhangeleka kakuhle, intombazana eyintsizana yayingaphinde ilahlekelwe ngabahlobo bayo bonke, ifumene iintshaba ezibukrakra ebusweni babo.
Abanye "abanqwenela kakuhle" basichazela uphawu olukhankanywe ngasentla njengophawu lokuba umyeni uya kuba ngumnxila obunxilisayo, ehlala kunye naye onokungonwabi. Ngako oko, bekukholelwa ukuba amazulu ngokwawo abonisa ukukhusela kwabo emtshatweni.
Bakholelwa kulo mqondiso, bakholwa kwaye baya kukholelwa ixesha elide kakhulu. Emva koko, ebomini bomntu ngamnye, umtshato uyinyathelo elinoxanduva, okwenza kube ngcono ukuba ungaphambuki. Yaye imiqondiso kule meko ibonwa njengendlela yokujonga kwikamva. Yiloo ndlela yokubaphatha ngayo - wonke umntu uyazikhethela. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba imizwa yengqondo yinto enamandla kakhulu echaphazela i-subconscious, kunye nayo-kunye nekamva lomntu. Ngoko ke, ukuqonda izibonakaliso ezingcono, njengento entle enokuzithemba kunye nethemba elithembisayo.
Kwaye nangona imvula ikulethe inkathazo encinci, njengenqwaba ephosiweyo okanye ingubo emanzi, khumbula ukuba ezi zinto zizinto ezincinci xa kuthelekiswa nolonwabo olulindele kuwe! Ngaphandle kwexesha wena ngokwakho ukholelwa!