Ewe, umtshato ngokwawo unesiqhamo esinzima - awukwazi ukugcina yonke into. Ziziphi iimpawu, xa umyeni kunye nobungqina besikhathi esizayo bangena kwi-spin ye-bachelor party, esambatho ayifanelekanga, kunye neTunis, apho kwakuhlelwe khona i-honeymoon , imvula yaqala. Yeka, lixesha lokuma ixesha elithile kwaye ujonge ngaphaya, wenza konke okulungileyo, landela isicwangciso, ukuthetha. Ukuba ewe, kunokwenzeka emva koko konke ukungahoywa kwamanye amasiko endala ukuba izibini zanamhlanje azizange zinyamekele ixesha elide.
Iimpawu zomtshato
Okokuqala, makhe sibone ngalo mhla wokubhiyozela. Ukuba konke kuchanekile, oku kucaca ukuba akuyiyo inyanga kaMeyi, njengoko sele yaziwa ukuba umtshato uyintolongo ngeli xesha, kuya kubangela ukuba bobabini bahlupheke. Kuyinto enomdla ukuba naluphi na umdlalo oyingcwele kuMpostile uYakobi (ngoMeyi 13) kufuneka unqunywe, kuba isenzo esicatshulwa kakubi sithathwa njengento ehlambalaza intsapho yomtshakazi-imilingo yamanani, uyazi. Imibhiyozo enomsindo ayilungiselelwe iholide ezinkulu zexesha kunye nexesha lezithuba ezine. Inketho efanelekileyo yinto engaqhelekanga, ewela ngoMgqibelo okanye ngeCawa, nangona kungekudala, uLwesihlanu ungumhla womtshato.
Sine-2014 phambi kwethu-unyaka wehashe. Abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba ngaba lo nyaka ulungele ukudala intsapho? Ngoko, sinokuthi ngokuzithemba ukuba ukhetho lomlingani ebomini luqwalaselwa kwaye isigqibo sithathwa ngendlela elinganiselayo, intsapho ingadalwa kunoma yimuphi unyaka. Kodwa kulabo abanako ukugqiba isigqibo nganoma yiphi indlela, unyaka wehashe ngowona nto, kuba iifama azikho izilwanyana. Kungcono ukuba bahlale emhlambini okanye babe khona kwiibini.
Impawu ngomhla womtshato
Umqondiso omhle yimvula ngosuku lomtshato okanye ikhephu, xa kufike ebusika. Ukuba ufuna ukuba umphefumlo odibeneyo ube yikhobe epheleleyo, cwangcisa umkhosi wenyanga. Uninzi luya kudibaniswa nesathelayithi yeplanethi yethu. Nantsi enye-umtshato kunye nokunyuka kwenyanga ukuya kuhlahlo oluzinzileyo nolusoloko lwentengo yezimali kwiintsapho, ezingenakuvuya kodwa! Nangona kunjalo, ukuba udibanisa kunye neenyanga ezinqabileyo, zonke iintlungu kunye neengxaki ziya kuhamba, kodwa andazi ukuba lide kangakanani.
Iimpawu ngaphambi komtshato
Ukuba uthetha ngemimiselo ngaphambi komtshato, cinga nge-wardrobe yakho kwangaphambili, kuba kukho imiqondiso ebalulekileyo ehambelana nezambatho zomyeni kunye nomtshakazi, nokuba kunjalo, izihlangu zabo. Umtshakazi kufuneka akhumbule ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba kushushu, akukho mbadada emtshatweni ! Izicathulo kuphela ezinezwane ezivaliweyo kunye nesihlanu - ngokusebenzisa ukuvuleka kwezontya ezivulekile ezivela ekhaya, kodwa kungabikho nxiba ngeenqwelatho ezihlala emtshatweni.
Izicathulo zomyeni zimele zibe mnyama okanye zimnyama, kuba izicathulo zokukhanya okanye izigcoko zomtshato zisezintlu zempilo yabaselula. Ukuba sele usuqalisile malunga nabafazi, ke asikucebisi, bafazi abathandekayo ukuba bakhethe ibhathengululi eliyintandane kwiqela lomtshato, nokuba ngaba likhulu kakhulu, kuba okhokho bethu bakholelwa-umyeni webhovaneli uya kuba ngumyeni ohambayo.
Bathi umtshakazi uyamthanda umtshakazi, ucebise ukuba ahlabe i lyastka kwisambatho somtshato. Ewe, kwaye khumbula, awukwazi ukuzama ngomtshato wakho, kungabi nakumalungu entsapho, nangemva komtshato! Enye into oyifunayo ukuba uyazi ukuba enye i-postulate, ethi, iingubo zokugqoka umtshakazi, ixesha elide ubomi obatshatileyo ngenxa yoko kumazwe athile entshonalanga kuba yinto yesiko ukugqoka iingubo kunye nesitimela eside kakhulu.
Iinkolelo zomtshato
Iimpawu kunye nezinkolelo emtshatweni zifana neengcamango zesazisi, ezifana nehashe kunye ne-harness okanye i-vinaigrette kunye ne-olivier, yonke ivela kwi-opera enye. Kukho iinkolelo, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba zibandakanye ezo ziqapheli ezijoliswe ekukhuseleni umyeni okanye umtshakazi, mhlawumbi zombini. Ngokomzekelo, xa umtshakazi ephuma endlwini ukuze akhiphe umkhosi, kufuneka agqoke isigqubuthelo, esimele sikhusele intsapho ezayo kwiso elibi. Bobabini abazalwana kufuneka babeke iikhonkco zokukhusela zesiNgesi kwimbhiyozo. Ezi zikhonkwane kufuneka zifihliwe, ukuze kungabikho mntu uya kuzifumana. Kuyenzelwe kwakhona
Umtshakazi, ngokwesiko esidala, kufuneka agqoke into entsha emtshatweni, into "engaqhelekanga" (ngaphandle kwengubo, iiglavu kunye, ngokwemvelo, iingubo zangaphantsi, ukugcina impahla), into egugile. Kufuneka wenze ikhonkco leentsimbi kwisigqoko sokugqoka okanye kwenye indawo engabonakaliyo yamehlo, ngokukhethekileyo ngentambo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, okumele uyikhusele kwiso elibi. Oku akuzona zonke iimpawu zabantu zomtshato, kodwa sathintela kwiingongoma eziphambili.
Ewe, nangona umtshato wakho kungekudala, ndinqwenela ukuba udibane nomtshato - uphawu oluhle kakhulu. Ngubani othi-emtshatweni womtshato, othi ngubani loo ntsikelelo enkulu. Kubonakala kum kumntu ukuba kubone inkampani enkulu yabantu abadibene nomxhelo oqhelekileyo sele sele unoyolo.