Ukubona amaqanda obolile ephupheni kukubonakalisa inkathazo, kwaye ukuqonda oku, akufuneki ukuba ngumbonisi. Iqanda liwuphawu lokuphila, lokuzalwa kwakhona, kwaye ukuba liphangiwe ephupheni, kuyimfuneko ukutolika ngokuchanekileyo lo mqondiso kwaye uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo.
Yenzani ikhukhu yenkukhu ebolile?
Amaqanda amnyama aphulile ephupheni - isilumkiso kungekhona nje ngeengxaki ezizayo, kodwa nokuba, nangona yonke imizamo, iziphumo ezibi ziyakunqandwa. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele uxolelane nokulinda ingxaki, "ukubeka i-straw" kusenelungelo.
Ukuze owesifazane okhulelwe abone amaqanda aphuphayo ephupha - isilumkiso malunga neengxaki zempilo, zombini ngokwabo nangomntwana. Kule meko, musa ukuphazamisana noviwo kunye nogqirha.
Ukuphosa emaqanda aphuphayo ephupha - ingozi yokuvukela into ebalulekileyo. Ukuba iqanda elibolile liphupha ngumntu othandwayo, lithetha ukuba, mhlawumbi, into enothando yinto engenanto okanye ilandela injongo yokuzingca.
Ukuba iqanda elibolile ephupheni liphukile, lithetha ukuba:
- ingxaki kwintsapho - ukutshatyalaliswa komlingane, ukuxabana nabantwana okanye abazali;
- ukutshatyalaliswa komhlobo - kwindawo esondeleyo yomphuphi kukho umntu onokwazi;
- ukuwa kwexabiso lobomi - lowo uphuphayo uya kucinga kwakhona ngezinto eziphambili;
- iingxaki ngenxa yokunyanzelisa - umntu obone iphupha kufuneka afunde indlela yokuziphatha ezandleni.
Kutheni amaqanda abombile abilisiwe?
Umntu oshishino, obone kwiphupha lakhe epheka amaqanda angcolileyo, kufuneka aphephe ukuthengiselana okukhulu, tk. Umngcipheko omkhulu kakhulu wokungena kwi-rascals okanye ukulahlekelwa yimali ngenxa yamandla amakhulu. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, kuya kuba yinto engabonakaliyo yokuqinisekisa - ukongezelela ukujonga isivumelwano kunye namagqwetha okanye uqinisekise i-cargo.
Amaqanda amaninzi abolileyo - okuluhlaza kunye okuphekwe - kunokuthetha ukuwa kokuziphatha komntu ayeliphuphayo. Isenzo esisodwa sokungaqondakali somphuphi singatshintsha isimo sengqondo sabantu abaninzi kuye, kwaye idumela liya kuba nzima kakhulu, ukubuyisela nokuzihlonipha.