Iphupha lihlukile. Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha ayenene, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kungenakwenzeka. Yonke le mifanekiso iguqulela yona, eya kukunceda ukwazi iziganeko zexesha elizayo kunye neli xesha, kunye nokuziqonda.
Kutheni ubusika bephupha?
Iphupha elinjalo lubonisa ukunyaniseka, ukudideka okukhulu nokunganeliseki ngobomi ngokwenene. Iqhwala ephupheni, i-monoton ubomi bakho. Oku kubonakala kwangaphambili kwexesha elilodwa lonwabo , elinokuthintelwa. Ubusika obufudumele kunye nekhephu liqikelela ukuphucula kwimicimbi kunye nokulungiswa kwempilo, oku kuya kwenzeka emva kokusebenzisa umzamo kunye nomonde.
Ukuba kubusika?
Ubusuku obungaphambi komtshato kubonisa ukuba ubuhlobo bakho nomlingane wakho buya kubanda, mhlawumbi usebenzise ukunyaniseka. Ukuba uphupha ubusika ebusuku, kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba kubanda, lithetha ngokulangazelela iimvakalelo zabantu. Ukuba bekukho inani elikhulu lekhephu ephupheni, ubutyebi kunye nokuchuma kulindeleke.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa uphupha amaphupho ebusika ehlobo?
Ukubona iphupha elinjalo kwixesha elifudumele lithetha iingxaki zoshishino kunye norhwebo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka bahlawule ingqalelo kwaye baqwalasele ngokucophelela onke amaxwebhu afunyenweyo ukwenzela ukuphepha oku.
Kuthekani ukuba kubusika?
Ngamanye amaxesha ephupheni, unokwazi ukuba yiyiphi inyanga ebusika uyaphupha, oku kuya kuba yongezelelweyo i-intetho ekuchazeni ngakumbi:
- NgoDisemba yinyanga apho yonke into inokwenzeka, into ephambili emva kokuvuswa kukunika isimo sengqondo esihle ;
- NgoJanuwari - amaphupha ezitshintsho ebomini, ukuphuculwa kwemiba yemali kunye nokufumana iindaba ezilungileyo;
- NgoFebruwari - ucela ukuba unake ingqalelo kwimpilo, kwindlela yokubonisa ibhankaso inhlanhla.
Ukuba wayenalo iphupha ebusika, kwaye uhlala ehlobo, uthetha ngokungahambisani okukhulu phakathi kwamagama nezenzo.