Ukubambisana, ngokungafani nokumisa umdlalo, akusiko isiko elidala. Nangona kunjalo, ngoku kutshanje kuzuza ukuthandwa phakathi kwabaselula.
Isithethe sokunika umtshakazi isandi asiyiSlavic. Ilizwe lalo qhinga lizwe laseYurophu. Ngoku inani elikhulu lamabhangqwana anamhlanje alungiselela inxaxheba, ngexesha apho indoda inika ingqungquthela yakhe yokuthandana, ngaphezu kokuqinisekisa isigqibo sakhe sokumthatha kumfazi. Xa ufumene isipho esinjalo, intombazana inokucinga malunga nomnwe ukumbathisa intsimbi yokubandakanya. Nangona kunjalo, ingxaki ingaba loo mntu wayengazi ukuba ngubani umnwe kunye nesandla sokugqoka intsimbi yokubandakanya. Kule meko, kufuneka ugqoke umgca eminwe apho uya kufumana khona. Iimveli zizithethe , kodwa ngezinye izihlandlo ubomi buzenza utshintsho lwazo, kwaye ungesabi. Into ephambili kukuba umyeni aqonde ukuba unxibe ingxowa yokubandakanya ngokuvumelana nesigqibo esizayo somtshato naye.
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Ngasiphi isandla abagqoka ingxowa yokubandakanya?
Umtya wokubambisana ngumqondiso wemvume yabantu babini ukudibanisa iinjongo zabo ngokuzayo. Hayizo zonke iibini ezenza amalungiselelo eeholide. Ngamanye amaxesha abathandi bathanda ukuchitha ubusuku bokuzibandakanya bodwa. Ngokuhlwa ngaloo mkhwenkwe umyeni wakhe unikela isipho sakhe esihle, apho umtshakazi angayishiyi de kube ngumhla womtshato.
Ukubambisana kwendandatho, ngokungafani nendandatho yokubandakanya, isimboli esingenanto. Okokuthi, umgca unikezwa kuphela ngumyeni. Ukuba intombazana iyavuma ukutshata, uyayifumana isipho. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lexeshana, utshintshe izicwangciso zakhe, kufuneka abuyisele umyeni wakhe umyeni. Ukuba loo nto intshintshile ingqondo yakhe yokutshata, ke umjikelo kufuneka uhlale kunye nentombazana.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abaza kutshata, kwinto enye umntu kufuneka agqoke intsimbi yokubandakanya. Kukho imibono eyahlukileyo kule ngongoma, edibaniswe nezithethe zabantu. EJamani, loo ndoda igqitywe ngakwesobunxele, nakwiiPoland nakwiiSlavic - ngakwesokudla. Oku kubangelwa ukuba inxaxheba yokubamba iqhosha liyimphambili yomncinci womtshato. Okokuthi, ngakwiphi isalathiso somtshato sigqitywe, ukubandakanyeka kugqitywe ingalo.
Kwamazwe amaninzi aseSlavic, kuquka iRashiya, iUkraine, iBelrusrus, ingqongqo ngakwesobunxele igqithwe ngabahlolokazi nabafazi abahlukanisile. Ngoko ke, ukukhetha kwisiphi isandla sokugqoka ingcambu yokubambisana, kungcono ukukhetha okokunene.
Ngayiphi iminwe abayigqoke intsimbi yokubandakanya?
Ingqungquthela yokubambisana isimboli sesigqibo esisisigxina sesibini esithandanayo sokuhlala kunye kunye, nesicwangciso kunye kunye nokukhulisa abantwana. Ngako oko, indandatho ifanele ibe yinto enhle, ikhunjulwe, yintsimbi ebalulekileyo kunye namatye. Umtshakazi kufuneka agcine isandi,
Ukukhetha intandokazi, umyeni kufuneka azi ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngubani umnxibo abembatha intsimbi yokubandakanya ukuze akhethe isipho ngobukhulu. Ekubeni umyinge wokubambisana ungumgca phambili wengubo yokubandakanya, ugugu ngomunwe omnye. Akunakususwa kumlenze wesandla sokunene de kube ngumhla womtshato. Ngomhla womtshato, kufuneka ususwe, njengempahla yonke, kwaye uthathe nawe. Umngcele wokubandakanya kufuneka ugqitywe kwakhona eminwe yesandla sokunene emva kokuba yonke imikhosi yomtshato sele idlule. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba akukwenziwanga, umtshato awuyi kuphumelela okanye uphile.
Kwixesha elizayo, intsimbi yokubandakanya inokugqithiswa kuphela kwiholide ezinkulu zeentsapho kwiqela lomtshato.